ramu pakistani
Oct 13, 2012, 02:11 AM
I have this childhood family friend, a girl. I love her a lot but cannot express my feelings positively to her but whenever I do she takes it as a joke or avoid it. I do not know whether she loves me or not. I usually get depressed when she does not text me or ignores me.
I literally do not know what to do with her. She is of the age to get married and I am not yet ready for it because I have to stabilize myself first, as in job etc. At the same time I do not want to let her marry any one else but she does not get it at all.
My question is what should I do now? Should I let her go like that, or should I wait?
I am completely baffled right now, confused. I do not know whether I am being selfish or what. I cannot concentrate on anything especially studies. I have also tried to tell her that "I like u n we should get married" but her answer was "do not expect any thing from me, u are a brilliant guy to be taken and I do not really believe myself to marry u and i have left it on ALLAH "
I literally do not know what to do with her. She is of the age to get married and I am not yet ready for it because I have to stabilize myself first, as in job etc. At the same time I do not want to let her marry any one else but she does not get it at all.
My question is what should I do now? Should I let her go like that, or should I wait?
I am completely baffled right now, confused. I do not know whether I am being selfish or what. I cannot concentrate on anything especially studies. I have also tried to tell her that "I like u n we should get married" but her answer was "do not expect any thing from me, u are a brilliant guy to be taken and I do not really believe myself to marry u and i have left it on ALLAH "