Hi , I'm in need of some answers because this has been going on for about 2 weeks. Recently my husband and I have been sexually active and the last time we tried it hurt so much when he tried to put it in it felt like it was burning. & the next two days the pain went away. Now its back and even worse so I got more curious and I decided to check it myself as I put my fingers down there to feel for anything wrong and I noticed that the left side starting from the vagina hole up to the opening of the inner lips is swollen and the little tiny bumps we have are a bit swollen as well. Every time I push down on the painful part by my vagina hole it hurts badly. Can someone give me any suggestions? Should I schedule a pap smear?

Sounds like a infection, you need to schedule an exam.