johnhammond76
Oct 11, 2012, 03:53 PM
Hi.
Basically I split up with my wife of ten years about 3 months ago, but things have been bad for over a year. Anyway 5-6 weeks I met a girl, we get on so well and became best friends.
We slept together one night, and ever since have been. We do everything together and sleep together 3-6 times a week. She stays over 1-2 nights a week.
She has said it's the best sex she's ever had, and when we look at each other I thought she felt the same way. I told her tonight I love her, but she told me she cares for me, that I am her best friend, how she loves being with me. Hut doesn't want a relationship.
I am gutted, but understand how me still being married etc would freak her out (her family would really disapprove of our situation).
Yet I still feel she is hiding more feelings?
It is killing me, and have told her before I don't want to get hurt etc,
What should I do? She wants to just carry on as things are, but am I setting myself up for more pain?
Any thoughts or advice would be great.
Thanks
Basically I split up with my wife of ten years about 3 months ago, but things have been bad for over a year. Anyway 5-6 weeks I met a girl, we get on so well and became best friends.
We slept together one night, and ever since have been. We do everything together and sleep together 3-6 times a week. She stays over 1-2 nights a week.
She has said it's the best sex she's ever had, and when we look at each other I thought she felt the same way. I told her tonight I love her, but she told me she cares for me, that I am her best friend, how she loves being with me. Hut doesn't want a relationship.
I am gutted, but understand how me still being married etc would freak her out (her family would really disapprove of our situation).
Yet I still feel she is hiding more feelings?
It is killing me, and have told her before I don't want to get hurt etc,
What should I do? She wants to just carry on as things are, but am I setting myself up for more pain?
Any thoughts or advice would be great.
Thanks