I have been married six years, and along the line I got fed up. My husband cheated on me more than once so I got tired of caring,eventually I discovered I no longer have feelings for him,although I must admit my feelings were never that deep but he was my friend and a good companion so I got hitched. I had already resigned myself to taking care of my son,and forgetting about love, but suddenly I fell in love with a colleague and have something to look forward to each day, but because I'm married and he isn't it was akward,eventually he suddenly got married and said the equation is balanced and we can now date each other? What am I to do? I feel like I have never been in a relationship where I am absolutely crazy about the person and I don't want to miss this.

He is crazy, it isn't balanced. There is nothing more imbalanced. His intentions can be good, I hate to tell you this, but why did he get involved with you and suddenly get married.

Get uncrazy about this guy because now he is married, he will use you as he wants and that isn't fair. You were vunerable and he probably knew that.

He probably thinks he is safe because he is married, and you are too so no revelations can be made between the four of you; if you get pregnant, you are married so he thinks what is the difference.

Get your thoughts together and figure out how you will handle this new, not beneficial situation, in your life.