I have had lower back ache feel sick morning and night and feel bloated and extra tired. Im not yet due on but this has only happened since my period ended at the end of last month could I be pregnant? The test said no but I think I took it too early?

I have had lower back ache feel sick morning and night and feel bloated and extra tired. Im not yet due on but this has only happened since my period ended at the end of last month could I be pregnant? The test said no but I think I took it too early?

There is no way for us to tell whether you are pregnant by these symptoms. You will have to wait to see if your period comes when it is due. If not, wait a week and test using first morning urine.

Yes, it was too early to test.

Okay thank you. But is there still a possibility?

Okay thankyou. But is there still a possibility?

Of course there is. If you had sex, then pregnancy is a possibility, even if you used protection.

You'll have to wait and see.

Yeah I know but I'm just more worried about how my body is reacting at the minute its causing me lots of aggro me and my partner have been together for years and regulary get checked so we are both healthy just I don't know what to expect and its worrying on your first time at pregnancy

Yeah i know but im just more worried about how my body is reacting at the minute its causing me lots of aggro me and my partner have been together for years and regulary get checked so we are both healthy just i dont know what to expect and its worrying on your first time at pregnancy

Welcome to reproduction. There's not one woman in the world that has been pregnant that didn't go through what you're going through now.

Pregnancy cannot be diagnosed by symptoms, it cannot be diagnosed online. You'll have to do what every woman on the face of this Earth has done, or will have to do, and that's wait, test, and see. That's your only option.

I know it's frustrating, and it's aggravating, but being "aggro" won't change the facts, and the facts are that it's too early to test, and there's nothing we can tell you that you yourself don't already know.

The waiting game sucks, but you're not alone. That's the way it is when it comes to pregnancy. If you are pregnant, wait until you carry the child for 40 weeks. If you think waiting a week or two to test is aggravating, you ain't seen nothing yet. ;)

Ok I'm not bothered about waiting I was curious that's all but quite frankly I feel your being sarcy and there is no need. Don't give advice if your going to make the person feel small while your doing. I don't have a problem with waiting I just wanted to put my mind at ease OK! Don't reply!

Ok im not bothered about waiting i was curious thats all but quite frankly i feel your being sarcy and there is no need. Dont give advice if your going to make the person feel small while your doing. I dont have a problem with waiting i just wanted to put my mind at ease ok! Dont reply!

Whoa! I'm not being "sarcy" at all. I'm assuming "sarcy" means sarcastic.

You asked a question, and I answered, with the only possible answer available.

I'm not trying to make you feel small at all, I'm simply telling you that you won't find out if you're pregnant on the internet. It's not possible. I really wish it was, because we get 20 plus questions a day from people wanting us to tell them if they're pregnant. It's just not possible. It really isn't.

Could you be? Yes. Are you? Don't know. You'll have to wait and see.

As for whether I reply. That's not your choice. I'm a member of this site, just like you. As such, I can respond to any question I choose to. If you don't like my answer, feel free to ignore it, but you cannot dictate whether I answer.

Keep in mind that everyone on this site is a volunteer. We don't get paid to do this, so being appreciative that someone took the time to post on your question, well, it goes a long way. Being rude, not so much. Just food for thought.

Good luck.

Yeah and that's fine but it seemed like you were trying to be patronising especially with the wink face at the end. I wasn't referring to the pregnancy as aggro I was referring to the illness I already have that's getting worse and I was curious if any symptoms were normal that I was having that's all and I never asked if I was pregnant that was just the header I used. I simply asked if the symptoms were normal. And I wanted to see if someone had or has those kind of symptoms to put my mi d at ease

Yeah and that's fine but it seemed like you were trying to be patronising especially with the wink face at the end. I wasn't referring to the pregnancy as aggro I was referring to the illness I already have that's getting worse and I was curious if any symptoms were normal that I was having that's all and I never asked if I was pregnant that was just the header I used. I simply asked if the symptoms were normal. And I wanted to see if someone had or has those kind of symptoms to put my mi d at ease

You posted this question in "pregnancy and new motherhood" and you asked if you're pregnant. Now you're saying that you didn't ask if you're pregnant, you think you're sick? Here's your exact post!


I have had lower back ache feel sick morning and night and feel bloated and extra tired. Im not yet due on but this has only happened since my period ended at the end of last month could i be pregnant? The test said no but I think I took it too early?

But you didn't ask if you're pregnant? Then why did you take a pregnancy test?

The winky face at the end was playful, not patronizing. Geesh!

I'm done.

If you're sick, see your doctor. Even if someone had the same symptoms as you that doesn't mean they have the same thing as you. The doctor is your only answer if you think you're sick, and waiting to test is the only answer if you think you're pregnant.

Now, because you've been so rude, I'm done answering any of your questions.

I'll leave. Highly unlikely that anyone else will answer seeing how you treat the people that take their time to give you advice, and do it for free.

Good luck and good bye.

No I said could I? Or is there a posibility? I never said am I! Your message did sound patronising and I'm not being rude I'm saying I felt belittled and if I wanted to be rudd I would have said thank you to the other answer you gave my original question is about symptoms and pregnancy yes bevause I don't know whether its pregnancy or my illness. Yeah that's fine like I said before thank you for your advice but that one message could have been worded better. Goodbye to you as well x

No i said could i? Or is there a posibility? I never said am i! Ure message did sound patronising and im not being rude im sayin i felt belittled and if i wanted to be rudd i would have said thankyou to the other answer you gave my original question is about symptoms and pregnancy yes bevause i dont know whether its pregnancy or my illness. Yeah thats fine like i said before thankyou for your advice but that one message could have been worded better. Goodbye to you aswell x

Okay, let's start over.

1. Could you be pregnant? Yes, you could.

2. Could it be that you're just sick? Yes, that's possible.

3. Can we tell you which one it is? No, we can't.

4. Can we diagnose either a pregnancy or an illness online? No, we can't.

5. Was I being mean? No, I wasn't. I'm sorry that you read my post the wrong way, but truth told, I was trying to give you information, while being lighthearted and fun about it. I can't spend 2 hours on a post wording it just right so that you personally don't take it the wrong way. It is what it is.

There are the facts. Hopefully this was worded right, just for you. And yes, that time I was being sarcastic.

I do wish you all the best, but really, there's nothing that you'll find online that will help you through this. If you're pregnant you have to wait and see, if you're sick you need to see a doctor, and those are your only options.

Good luck.