My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 2 years ago, after being together about 6.5 yrs. She has some personal issues with money, jobs and places to stay to working out, and is still living in my apartment. She has her car and public storage for her stuff, but I pay all the bills. She has strained relationships with her family and has next to no friends. So a lot of the time she feels lonely and gets depressed and says she needs comforting. When she broke up with me she said she wanted to focus on college and getting her life together and did not want a boyfriend anymore. I respected that but I was willing to wait for her because of all the time I put in the relationship. Just recently I found a piece of paper in my apartments which was part of her diary I guess and it has story's on it with her going out with two others guys since we broke up. It read that she cared about them, she loved them, kiss on them, met there family and even been Intimate with them but both used her and didn't want a relationship with . I figured there were just rebound relationships anyway. Both the relationship only lasted about 6-7 months each, not at the same time. At the end of the paper she says she tired of guys using her, taken her love for granted in stuff. When I asked if she ever been with another guy even though we are broke up she says it's none of my Business. I still love her but the fact that she never told me that she was not in love with me anymore or wanted to work on getting back together hurts the most.I don't ASK you to do anything ar up after yourself and get your life together so you can get out on your own two feet. Now days she doesn't want to talk about us because there is no us... not even the good times. I understand her and willing to move on with my life but she has to go so I can close the long chapter in my life. I not even thinking about her coming back because when/if I kick her out with no where to go, not enough money to make it on her own she will be mad, sour for a long time. Might even put me in that same class as men who used her but that far from the truth. I gave her 30 days to move but she moved the next day but left a few items here. I changed the locks because she has a key and I don't trust her to come a pick up her stuff with free will. We have not talked in a month and I thought she would miss me enough to call but I think she is still bitter or mad that I kicked her out and she has to live at her female friends house with her guy cousin that used her for sex. I know she liked the guy as my replacement but she found out he had other women on his mind not just her. I know her life better than anybody and want her to be happy so I hope she not settling for the no nothing guy. Should I wait a little long in NC... maybe next year or wait until she contacts me. She will contact on day to get the rest of her stuff but who knows since she has no real place to call home.