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roogirl
Sep 28, 2012, 11:21 AM
Every time she speaks, he always listens intently, and giggles like a little school boy. I can also tell by the way he talks about her and by the 'vibes' he puts out when she is around. I asked him about this once, and he dodged the subject and didn't give me a straight answer.

My sister in law is a good person who would never encourage his attention, so I know it's not her fault, she is also a good friend of mine too. I feel resentful towards my husband, however. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her too.

Please offer some advice on how I best deal with my feelings of jealousy.

slapshot_oi
Sep 28, 2012, 03:48 PM
I suggest both of you see a therapist. That's the only person who will be able to sort this out for you.

talaniman
Sep 29, 2012, 07:17 PM
Wow talk about long time no see, how are you stranger and why even be bothered by his reaction to your friend since you KNOW ain't nothing happening? Its just annoying, sotell him to stop looking sillyunless there is more to this.

How long have you been married and got any kids? Really its not all that unusual for married guys to be silly at times with females they know are close friends and feel safe around them. How long have you been noticing this behavior?