My Gf of two and a half yrs cheated on me. I was overseas doing military thing and within month of me coming back to u.s. She had a one night stand with her friend whom I met. I found out last weekend because she had mentioned when she first saw me she almost said someone's else's name 2x once when she greeted me and once in bed it bothered me to point that I searched through her text messages and found that he was talking about missing her an she saying she knows and it looked like flirting... I went to someone else she text and it sounded like comparisons were made between me and the scum bag I had to leave area to cool down and I've had a lot of hardships since being back in my state an she was Der 4 them but I can't b wit someone that I can't trust so I'm doing a lot of debating..

So what's your question? Are you asking if you should leave her? If you are then the answer is yes you should.

Why be with someone you can't trust but why be with someone who isn't going to be loyal to you.