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BigBob72
Sep 26, 2012, 07:26 AM
Been in a three year relationnship with a girl I love and care about a lot. She wanted to take a "break" . She said she lost feelings for me but she still cares about me a lot. I didn't treat her well in the last year and was hurting her without even realizing what I was doing. I apologized and pleaded to give me one more chance because I really have changed. I want her to see the new side of me. I finally just cut my looses and decided the break was the best thing for the both of us. So we have been in no contact for almost a month now. I have seen her here and there and we both kind of ignore each other and it hurts me so much to do. We are both juniors in college and she lives across the street from me, so that doesn't help me. I really want to move on but my feelings are still way too strong. She has been tweeting all this crap about being single and what my ex boyfriend taught me and there are more fish in the see and crap. It really hurts me because she knows I look at that crap and I don't know if she is trying to hurt me on purpose. She said she at least cares about me but it doesn't seem like it to me. She wasn't just my girlfriend for three years she was my best friend and it kills me that I lost both. I want to try to rekindle this somehow if that is even possible. I just don't know how I can approach it. Please help. Thanks!

Homegirl 50
Sep 26, 2012, 07:43 AM
Why are you looking at her tweets?
It does not appear she wants to rekindle anything with you.
It's time you accept that it's over and move on.

BigBob72
Sep 26, 2012, 03:47 PM
I just can't seem to let go I guess I love her too much.

Homegirl 50
Sep 26, 2012, 03:48 PM
Then you are not ready for help.

Wondergirl
Sep 26, 2012, 03:49 PM
I love her too much.
No, that is not the case at all. Think about it.