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kawaiichan
Sep 24, 2012, 07:07 PM
I just need to mention this to get it out of the way: I committed theft under 5000 before.

I have a boyfriend now and he's just too good for me. He's sweet, kind, smart, funny and has a clean record. I've lately been depressed because I know I don't deserve him. He's entirely too good for me and he deserves better than someone like me. I often contemplate about just breaking it off with him so he's not stuck with a thief like me. What should I do?

gab82795
Sep 24, 2012, 09:56 PM
Let him know about your past and what's on your mind.
Trust is the main factor of any relationship.

Fr_Chuck
Sep 24, 2012, 11:24 PM
You need to see a counselor, You are worried about your weight yourself image, and you are almost overly obsessed with your past theft ?

Have you changed, do you still steal ? Do you want to steal? If not, you learned your lesson.

Store will not hire you right now, since you are 15, at 18 your juv records are sealed, and if you did a diversion program, there is no record anyway.

You will not get hired, if you can not present yourself well, if you can not tell them you are the best and deserve the job.

You need to get help to be happy with you, just the way you are.

kawaiichan
Sep 25, 2012, 05:50 PM
To Fr_Chuck: No, I don't steal anymore. That was a one-time mistake that I will never repeat again. I'm still haunted by the memories whenever I have time to think. Thank you for answering. :)

To gab82795: I can't exactly tell him. My parents had me swear to them that this issue is to remain just inside my family and I don't want to break that.