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nancymatos
Mar 9, 2007, 05:28 PM
My husband of 2 years and relationship togther of 10 years, we have a 7 year old son and twins (first marriage 21). Together we're amazing. Best friends. I love him to death. Huge fight, words exchanged, lots of cursing, he left last Sunday and never came back. It will be aweek this Sunday. My son is suffering, I am suffering but keepingmy head up. Said we're done and that he is getting his own apartment to take my son to visit him.

I miss him but I'm giving him his space. Don't want to crowd. Does he miss me too? Does he still love me? I don't know. Just sitting here wondering. Thank you.

louie1
Mar 24, 2007, 03:48 PM
Time is needed for you both to calm down and access your feelings for each other.I am sure he misses you as you do he but he is probably as scared as you are of making the first move, let things calm down then very calmy tell him how you feel and how if he needs space to decide you are happy to give it to him. I have learnt that there is a fine line between love and hate , we only ever hit out with words if we are hurting and care! Good luck

Qwazi
Mar 24, 2007, 05:06 PM
Write him a heart felt letter. He can't yell if he is reading.