Basically my boyfriend and I met about a month ago online and we talked and hit it off immediately. We met up and went on a date and he was awkward in the resterant I assumed he didn't like me or whatever so I tried my best not to "excuse" myself and just go home. After dinner we were going to go to the arcade but he suggested we go to barnes and nobles so I said okay. While we were walking he never once touched my hand or made any physical contact with me the only time he looked at me was when I looked away. Then he said he needed something from his car and asked if I wanted to sit and wait so I went along I just assumed he wanted to take me home and never see me again I was dying on the inside. As soon as I got into the car he grabbed my hand and talked about our future dates so I was shocked and surprised. He then grabbed my hand and told me to touch him he was being wayy to sexual too fast and I told him no. So he kissed me and he wouldn't stop kissing me.. he kept holding me in his arms and he just wouldn't let me go. Afterwards we cuddled and I had to go home. Before I went home he started talking about future dates and all this other stuff. HOWEVER he always compliments me telling me I'm cute and sexy yadda yadda but he wants me to lose 50 pounds? Now ill tell you I'm not skin and bones I'm kind of chubby like a size 8-10 me losing 50 pounds could make me 0-2 I just want to be about a size 4. He basically told me when I lose 50 pounds I'm promised to him buying me all these things and new clothes , etc. He's still sweet and he works out with me. But I kind of feel hurt from it. On top of that he goes a university and he works (he comes from a wealthy background) so he studys a lot and he has a lot of home work. We haven't seen each other in about 2 going on 3 weeks but he always tells me "your gunna be so sexy and skinny" he says he's going to work me out together , etc. I had every intention to lose weight but he kind of stresses me out about it every day. He calls and texts me all the time when he gets the chance and we even sleep on skype when he gets the chance. But I don't know sometimes he makes the most rude insensitive comments without even realizing it. He wants me to go to his school, his house whenever I want, everywhere really. But he acts weird in front of people directly.. I don't know if its cause of the first date or what. He told me he doesn't like public affection. Im a Leo by the way I'm 18 and he's 23. I don't know if I'm being overly sensitive (pmsing now) or what. I lost 10 pounds so far and he got so happy and that's when he said (40 more pounds to go) It stung.. we were suppose to see each other last week but he couldn't because he had to turn in a paper and I turned him down yesterday because I go to college as well so we both agreed on a date. However he always ask me to come to his house (like everyday) and I can't because I still live at home and my mom would go all weird. He never called me fat directly and he's being so supportive I guess but man why do guys say insensitive things..

If he really cares for you, then he would not force you to do something that you do not really want to do.

You obviously should talk to him about it and how his words make you feel.