Ex needs money

This girl I broke up with 3 weeks ago, dated for 1 year but still were the same for another two years. She actually MSG me on Facebook saying that I was wondering If I can get some money as she kind of need it ASAP. I actually owe her a bit.

Now she is overseas on a trip with her friends and I know the money she took with her could actually last longer than she actually contacting me now. She went 18 days back as she still have another 18 days to go.

In short the point of why I'm asking you guys is that it has a little background. She added these two girls on Facebook while we were together one was my housemate fbuddy and other was single. I never added them as she was a bit suspicious on that I would go for a flick with this other girl. Well just recently my friend's girl (they live overseas) added me on Facebook and I wrote on her saying that I never noticed we were friends on Facebook etc. When the other girl replied on that comment, exactly after few hours I get a message on saying that she needs money.

We actually decided we will not talk to each other while she is on her trip and just be friends. She actually dumped me. And also one of her friend who's with her has actually liked my status a couple of times.

Does she needs attention or actually wanted money?

Feelings for ex

I dated this girl for 1 year and then we broke up, during this she wanted to marry me n etc. however things were too early for that. Well I was OK with break up to certain extent at first but she wasn't so kept on being the same for another 2 years. We named as open relationship but in reality it wasn't.

In last four months she changed completely. She was a girl with high value and morals but something happened and she had sex with a couple of randoms. One even became her fbuddy for sometime. She told me everything and I would remind her morals. But she kept on. She was involved in me to early and I was helping her to move on and take things slowly and sensibly. However I never knew when I got strong feelings, I got pushed into her while helping her to move on. She said she had sex with randoms to move on from me but she would be the same with me all the time.

She went overseas with her friends for 2 months. Before going she broke up with me all of a sudden and acted weirdly. She said to me not to contact while she's overseas. I'm not contacting her and will not do even after she comes back. She said we will be friends and maybe meet or talk on phone once a month or so. She is doing all those things she hated.

By the way I owe her some money which I am transferring in her account on a plan. She never let me pay her back while we were together. This big problem now here that I have strong feelings for her and her attitude at the end left me nowhere but in pain. I'm going to wait for her to contact me is that right when she comes back?I can see her ruining her life for I don't know which reason. I am with stuck with strong feelings for her.

What to do when she contacts and what to do to get her back in my life n on track.

You aren't supposed to post two threads on the same subject. Why would you get back together with her? She only contacted you because she ran out of money on her trip. She obviously acted with high morals while you dated, and now is living life in a way you see as lacking morals. It doesn't make any sense to me why you want to be with her again.

Pay her what you owe her, and be done with this episode of your life. It didn't work for her so she dumped you, no biggie, now leave her alone and don't be involved with her morals or love life.

I agree with both of you and I am paying her but at that time I wasn't ready to marry when we were dating in the first year. Because of family issues.
She was getting too much into me and then I broke up with her to make things easier. Therefore after that I helped her moving on it took me another 2 year to finally get to it.
As I mentioned before things were different as I studying and so was her.
Now things are different and I never realised that I have very strong feelings her.
I know it's sounds stupid me helping her to move on and take things slow but I'm not a person who would hurt someone. I'm nearly 24 now and she was my first girlfriend.
She never hided anything from me what she did with others. I respect that and I never did anything with anyone on top cut all my connections with girls as she would get upset because of them hitting on me all Time.
I'll cut it short, all I want to know is that shouldn't she had took a bit slowly to cut off everything and said she'll be friends with me but she's acting all ignorant to me and got angry on everything before she went on a trip.
Please I know these questions might be stupid but I need to know the answers to these questions because unless and until I took things out of me I never get relax.

I don't know what she should be doing but its obvious she isn't doing what you want her too, and frankly its none of your business.

Actually guy its you wanting more from her than she wants to give, and you are in this thing more than she is. That's why you back off and leave her be and get your head on straight and live without her.

Just move on yourself the way you helped her too. Stop being her emotional tampon and expecting anything from her at all. Forget friends and go no more contact with her.

I don't know why you are still worrying about anything she does. Pay your debt and move on with your life. She doesn't owe you anything.

Is it OK to like my ex girlfriend friend's photo and comment. They both put solo photos on their wall. Would it be fine if I like her friend and comment and not my ex girlfriend.

It's been a month we broke up properly. She broke up before going on the trip. She is overseas on a trip after with her friends. Her same friend liked my statuses twice since then.

I suppose it's "okay" to do that. I personally think there's probably a lot of potential drama to be had there, though.

I suppose it's "okay" to do that. I personally think there's probably a lot of potential drama to be had there, though.

Yeah I guess you are right. I liked it her friend photo and commented.
Outcome:
She actually liked one of my friend statuses who lives with me. Idk what to say but I think it was just a angry reaction or making me jealous.

I think its best after a break up to leave the ex and her friends completely alone. You already see the drama and speculation it causes.