My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple of months now and we talk about getting more serious in a sexual manner. I want to move onto this stage but I'm nervous I don't know where her vagina is and if I know what to do the first time. Many people my age talk about fingering etc but I don't know how or what to do. Please help??

My girlfriend and I have been dating 4 a couple of months now and we talk about getting more serious in a sexual manner. I want to move onto this stage but I'm nervous I don't know where her vagina is and if I know what to do the first time. Many people my age talk about fingering etc but I don't know how or what to do. Please help???


How old are you? How old is she?

How old are you? How old is she?

We are both 15 years old

We are both 15 years old


Are both you and she prepared to raise a child in the event she gets pregnant?

OR are you both using some form of birth control?

I think 15 years old and in a "semi serious" relationship is far too young to engage in sexual play. However, if you do decide you are both emotionally ready (and understand the details of the physical act) I would suggest double protection.

Are both you and she prepared to raise a child in the event she gets pregnant?

OR are you both using some form of birth control?

I think 15 years old and in a "semi serious" relationship is far too young to engage in sexual play. However, if you do decide you are both emotionally ready (and understand the details of the physical act) I would suggest double protection.

We only plan on actually having sexual intercourse after 18 but I'm interested on the more hands on type play.

We only plan on actually having sexual intercourse after 18 but I'm interested on the more hands on type play.


Sex play leads to other sex play - I am just telling you both to be careful. Read the pregnancy threads, the worry about semen on fingers, the unexpected pregnancy.

In the meantime, despite your age, here is a drawing which you can find by searching the internet for the info, no matter what your age: Female Genitalia - Medical Illustration, Human Anatomy Drawing, Anatomy Illustration (http://hon.nucleusinc.com/generateexhibit.php?ID=4508)

Sex play leads to other sex play - I am just telling you both to be careful. Read the pregnancy threads, the worry about semen on fingers, the unexpected pregnancy.

In the meantime, despite your age, here is a drawing which you can find by searching the internet for the info, no matter what your age: Female Genitalia - Medical Illustration, Human Anatomy Drawing, Anatomy Illustration (http://hon.nucleusinc.com/generateexhibit.php?ID=4508)

Thank you 4 all your help I hope it works :)

Thankyou 4 all your help I hope it works :)

I just need to know where to place my fingers, how to get them there and what to do with them...

I just need to know where to place my fingers, how to get them there and what to do with them...


No one is going to give you step by step instructions - you need to talk to your girlfriend and see what feels good to her.

How to get them there? I thought you were both in agreement on this sexual play.

No one is going to give you step by step instructions - you need to talk to your girlfriend and see what feels good to her.

How to get them there? I thought you were both in agreement on this sexual play.

We are in agreement but I don't want to do it in the wrong time or ask her in case it ruins the moment

We are in agreement but I don't want to do it in the wrong time or ask her incase it ruins the moment


Again, no one here is going to write a sex manual for you.

15 is very young for this type of sexual contact. I hope you two will reconsider. One type of sex leads to another and before you know it, you two children could be having a child of your own.

15 is very young for this type of sexual contact. I hope you two will reconsider. One type of sex leads to another and before you know it, you two children could be having a child of your own.


Watching the way this thread has played out I believe it's all about reaction.

My spidey senses are tingling - this is not legit. Maybe parts of the post are, but the last few, no way. OP is looking for a reaction which so far he hasn't received.

Watching the way this thread has played out I believe it's all about reaction.

My spidey senses are tingling - this is not legit. Maybe parts of the post are, but the last few, no way. OP is looking for a reaction which so far he hasn't received.

Absolutely! Too much time on his hands.