Charrlote
Sep 18, 2012, 07:21 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years now, we are both fresh out of high school and doing our best to be adult about most things. Recently he has been doing lawn work and carpentry with a nieghbor. I would call and text and he say he was too busy to answer and would say sorry. I didn't think much about it because I understood. But this has become his excuse for everything now. When I call him he doesn't answer and all of a sudden my calls are going straight to voicemail, also he rarely ever answers my text .
We will goes up to a whole week without talking, and the sad thing is we only live down the street from each other. I try to go to his place but I don't know if he wants me to because he never answers his phone. He acts like a jerk to me sometimes and he says he sleeps all day too . That's also one of his excuses for not talking to me. I don't feel like I'm nagging him too much. But he makes me feel like crap and not a girlfriend.
I talked to him about it before, he said he would change but it hasn't happen. This has been going on for a couple months now. He never says I love you first anymore and all he wants to do is sleep or do whatever it is that he does at home. Some days when he says he was sleep or working, I see him texting his friends or answer phone calls from other people and I think like why doesn't he answer my call or text?
Maybe I'm over doing it, but I am so hurt and angry , I can't cheat on him because I'm never that girl and I don't want to be, but I want to punch him in his head sometimes and tell him that I hate him so much. He doesn't like when I talk to him about how I feel or when I'm upset, trust me he's made that absolutley clear . He only makes me feel worse about it . And when I do talk to him and tell him I missed him so much he just says "mmhmm" like I'm a dumb child.
What do I do?
We will goes up to a whole week without talking, and the sad thing is we only live down the street from each other. I try to go to his place but I don't know if he wants me to because he never answers his phone. He acts like a jerk to me sometimes and he says he sleeps all day too . That's also one of his excuses for not talking to me. I don't feel like I'm nagging him too much. But he makes me feel like crap and not a girlfriend.
I talked to him about it before, he said he would change but it hasn't happen. This has been going on for a couple months now. He never says I love you first anymore and all he wants to do is sleep or do whatever it is that he does at home. Some days when he says he was sleep or working, I see him texting his friends or answer phone calls from other people and I think like why doesn't he answer my call or text?
Maybe I'm over doing it, but I am so hurt and angry , I can't cheat on him because I'm never that girl and I don't want to be, but I want to punch him in his head sometimes and tell him that I hate him so much. He doesn't like when I talk to him about how I feel or when I'm upset, trust me he's made that absolutley clear . He only makes me feel worse about it . And when I do talk to him and tell him I missed him so much he just says "mmhmm" like I'm a dumb child.
What do I do?