Guys , One more name (Mine Ajay) today entered in the SAD story of Love, I guess.

My "Girl" very cute (She is from Kanpur and I am from Jammu). We worked togather for some time and then I joined some other IT company and now I am in US from Past 1 year. After leaving her I realize she is one of the most lovable girl, cute girl and perfect for me and of course I love her. Finally I proposed her for marriage and she agreed. We are in love from past 9 months.

I somehow convinced my family but the condition is her family is not agreeing at all... (Caste Issue (According to them mine is small SHARMA vs PANDEY), Horoscope not matching issue and above all IZZAT Issue)...

She is ready to do the Court Marriage and flee with me but I am getting afraid of doing this. I am thinking of Her family IZZAT and mine big family IZZAT as well. I have seen some cases where girl flee with boy and within few months the girls Father , Mother went into shock stage because they were not able to bear the IZZAT issue.


These Days many proposal are coming for her and now I have to decide whether I should go and do the court marriage with her bring her with me in USA .


With my current age and experience , I am not able to take proper decision. Please help me in taking decision .

Any experieced /Good advice if you can suggest me , you are welcome..