I have a 4yr and a boyfriend for 8 years and not a day went by I didn't think about the man I fell in love when I was 17, everyday I always wonder how things would have been and I cryed wish I could seem him.. well a week a go I got a text and it was him aking me if I rembered him, How could I forget, so we have been talking texting everyday I don't know what to do do I tare my little girl from her dad mind you he doesn't work or nothing good dad that's about it my past love wants me he wants to be with he says his intions wasn;t to break up my famliy but things aren't going good there any way I want to live for myself and my kid. I still love this man that I loved back then what do I do?

You already ruined your relationship by not getting over this past boyfriend not to mention the fact that you're cheating on him right now. If you can't get over this guy from your past, then you need to inform your boyfriend. It's not fair to him to be in a relationship where he's being cheated on.