I know this really cute guy, he's nice and sweet and awesome, and is 5 years older than me! (I'm a young teen) He starts every conversation we have, and is very complimentary. He likes a lot of things I do, offers to help me in school, and is very encouraging. He's very truthful, but he just puts it down very... Nicely. I *might* like him, but my BFF is his sis. I don't know what to do. Thanks for the help. =)

~ Anonymous

How old are the two of you?

Our advice is age specific.

Oh, sorry about that. 13 and 18.

My parents think I'm too young to date (Which I agree with, and I'm totally fine with it), I'm just curious. My parents do like him though, remember, best friend's brother. ;)

~ Anonymous

You are MUCH too young to be involved with an ADULT!
Stick to your Pokemon.

OK, well, I like to talk with him, but how do I get him to talk to me *Less*?

You are smitten, it's a crush, and its simple you don't be around when he is, as he is much to old for you. LOL, you will have many crushes the next few years and some of then require you to do nothing.

Like others said it will not be wise to date him. He is 18, he is not exactly an adult but he isn't ainir either. I know someone who is around same age as you who had and had a 22 year old boyfriend. He was pestering her for sex. I am the same age as you but she is a year older then me. Anyway, she came to me for advice. I told that it is illegal, and he could me condemn as a pedohila sex offender. Even though he didn't actually "rape" her. Anyway like the other sai he is much to older as of now. If he can wait and you can to. Then wait until your in your 20s.

nd had a 22 year old boyfriend. He was pestering her for sex. I am tthe same age as you but she is a year older then me. Anyways, she came to me for advice. I told that it is illegal, and he could me condemn as a pedohila sex offender. Even though he didn't actually "rape" her. Anyways like the other sai he is much to older as of now. If he can wait and you can to. Then wait until your in your 20s.


If she's underage it IS legal rape, no exceptions.