I dyed my hair a brown, it turned out to dark, I dyed it again a lighter brown, an it turned my hair pitch black, I went and got some hair color remover, my hair turned like an orangish red, so I went to walmart an got a light brown 51 my hair turned a reddish brown, more red. So my question is how can I get it to like a chocolate brown, not to dark but not to light? What color or kind of dye can I get? Thank u