I don't know what to do so my pregnant ex girl friend left me right she got into another relationship after she left me even though she's having my baby right so I let her and I stopped talking to her even though it hurt me so much because I wanted to be their threw her pregnancy but if she doesn't want me their then I can't be their right. So know that her new boyfriend cheated on her she called me telling me what happened and that she's not going to be back wit him which I do not believe .she would call me once in a while but always private but now she called me with her number not blocked telling me that she would never go back with him and that she wants to be friends wit me . She tells me that because of the things she did to hurt me by leaving me to be wit this other guys that she doesn't think that we can be together because she can't face my familly. When we were together she cheated on me . So I told her that because she is caring my baby and because she's so young (20) that I forgave her for what she did and that I would give her another chance . I just don't know if tight now I should be comforting her and being her friend because I know thst she will go back to him . What do you think I should do? I mean I know I have to have dome communication wit her because she is pregnant wit my baby but should I be that shoulder for her to cry on, should I let myself like always be their for her because right now she's sad because she's not wit him but when she does get back wit him which I kind of have s feeling she Will because even though the hit cheated on her she cried to me telling me that she ed up that if she would have loved him more or done something different that he wouldn't have cheated on her she blames her self that's why I think she will be back wit him. Should I just tell her to leave me alone and when the baby is born to call me or should I try and win her back because honestly this us my first child and if she would want to be back in a relationship wit me and have a family I would do it

Eddie, if you want to keep track of your baby, and you still want to be with her, do all you can to facilitate that.

You did post that she has cancer, you were worried, and you got advice about that.

Now do what you have to do; if she needs a shoulder, you bit it !

Eddie, if you want to keep track of your baby, and you still want to be with her, do all you can to facilitate that.

You did post that she has cancer, you were worried, and you got advice about that.

Now do what you have to do; if she needs a shoulder, you bit it !

Ok but should I like tell her that I still love her and that I want get back or just be her friend and comfort her and just let things happen . I'm just scared because I was finally able to start getting over her and I was finally starting not to hurt no more I was moving on wit my life and know she's volnerable and if she starts to show me a little love like hugs and letting me see her a kilo more I'm a start falling for her and what if she goes back to him I'm a be in the same spot I was in not to long ago mad sad and depressed and I don't want to feel like that no more but I do love her and wish we could be together

Just be that shoulder and keep your heart closed for the time being. Take it slow until you find out. She sounds very immature and that may be the reason why you are having difficulty in this relationship. Bear that in mind and know it probably has nothing to do with you, but her not knowing her true feelings for anyone at the present time. Also, her hormones are off balance because she is pregnant, makes a whole lot of difference to both of you right now.

Wow, mine is the same story but except of me being the he's the that left me pregnant for someone else. Read my question please. Username is bbat93 just posted it