What do you do when your family has a view on something and your friends have a totally different view on the same thing.

You get used to it because individuals have different views on many issues - that's what makes us individuals. It is your decision afterwards if you find their views to be enough to not include them in your circle of friends.

It is also normal to question your family's views, as well. Part of preparing to be an adult is learning different view points and deciding if you want to maintain those of your family, once you are an adult and can decide for yourself. Remember, you are responsible for who you become!

What kind of view are we speaking of?