mraziate
Sep 11, 2012, 09:18 AM
One of my girlfriends introduced me to this guy, we went out twice - once with mutual friends and once just me, him and her. It was pretty obvious that we both enjoyed each other`s company, we didn't flirt though, just chatted, laughed, etc.
Then we went out again, me, him, her, her boyfriend and some other people, first for drinks, than to a bar and than just me and him went to another bar dacing, flirting a bit more and we ended up in bed.
Next day he calls me and wants to meet up and talk about it. He was really nice saying he doesn`t want this to srew up potentially good friendship, he really felt ashamed for what he did, he doesn`t want us to have any bad feelings for what we did,etc. I assured him there is nothing to be ashamed of, we are both adults, knowing what we are doing, and we can be friends and no bad feelings. We continued our "date" for more than a hour, it was really nice, obviously for both of us, no awkwardness at all.
I really like him though and I would like to see if thinks could work out between us. I have the feeling he likes me too, but not sure if he just enjoys my company or there is something more... He told my girlfriend few times that I am really cool girl and asked her before and after our "date" if he screwed up really badly with sleeping with me etc.
So basically my question is: what can I do to make him want to date me? I don`t want to scare him off thinking I am some kind of crazy stalker who won't leave him alone after one night stand, I am not madly in love with him, I just like him and I though something really clicked between us.
Any advice please?
Then we went out again, me, him, her, her boyfriend and some other people, first for drinks, than to a bar and than just me and him went to another bar dacing, flirting a bit more and we ended up in bed.
Next day he calls me and wants to meet up and talk about it. He was really nice saying he doesn`t want this to srew up potentially good friendship, he really felt ashamed for what he did, he doesn`t want us to have any bad feelings for what we did,etc. I assured him there is nothing to be ashamed of, we are both adults, knowing what we are doing, and we can be friends and no bad feelings. We continued our "date" for more than a hour, it was really nice, obviously for both of us, no awkwardness at all.
I really like him though and I would like to see if thinks could work out between us. I have the feeling he likes me too, but not sure if he just enjoys my company or there is something more... He told my girlfriend few times that I am really cool girl and asked her before and after our "date" if he screwed up really badly with sleeping with me etc.
So basically my question is: what can I do to make him want to date me? I don`t want to scare him off thinking I am some kind of crazy stalker who won't leave him alone after one night stand, I am not madly in love with him, I just like him and I though something really clicked between us.
Any advice please?