I'm really concerned about my boyfriend and his family :( They're always arguing, even when I'm there, and they just get so angry. Since he's an only child and his parents both work, his mum works most of the day, he's expected to do all the chores and if he doesn't it just results in a argument.

Like today, for instance, we got to his and his dad told him that he needed to give him a hand unloading something from his van in madeley and my boyfriend didn't want to, he moaned at his dad because he's been trying to have his room done for two weeks and he's having to sleep on the sofa which hurts his back. His dad could have done it yesterday as he was free but he didn't /: I feel like all this arguing is my fault because they only seem to argue when I'm around and before I was in his life they didn't even argue :( I just feel so guilty about it all.

Whenever they have an argument my boyfriend gets really upset afterward and I'm really concerned about it but I don't know what I should do :( And another thing he gets upset about is my 'best friend'. He says that whenever I go to talk to him, she always tries to talk to me, it's like they're kids battling for my attention and I just can't handle anymore because they both don't like each other although they wouldn't admit it and I don't know what to do about that either :(

Any help welcome, thanks

When you aren't use to the ways of others it can be confusing, and stressful. But never take the blame for the flaws of others, just stop putting yourself in those situations to be stressed.

Don't visit him with his family, tell him why, and don't have him mix with your friend that he hates and competes with.

How old are you both?

When you aren't use to the ways of others it can be confusing, and stressful. But never take the blame for the flaws of others, just stop putting yourself in those situations to be stressed.

Don't visit him with his family, tell him why, and don't have him mix with your friend that he hates and competes with.

How old are you both?

We're both 15, and it's hard to get them to not mix as they're both in each others classes a lot /: but thanks anyway [:

They don't have to mix with you do they? Your time with your friends can be separated from your time with your boyfriend can't it?

They don't have to mix with you do they? Your time with your friends can be seperated from your time with your boyfriend can't it?

It's hard to not mix them though as we're all in each others classes and his friends are my friends and vice versa /:

Love is complicated sometimes but no reason you should be involved with conflicts of his making, or take the heat for him being pissed about things of his own making. Tell him that's not going to work, and you don't intend to go along with it.

You don't compromise your happiness to be with anyone, that's NOT love, and its something you must deal with. Yes its hard to separate things, but that's exactly what you have to so with some one who argues a lot with parents and friends.

What you are doing doesn't sound like much fun for sure. So make a stand, or excuse yourself from the conflicts. Its also a big red flag to be with a guy who cannot do his chores, and obey his parents. Just give it some thought about who you are giving your heart to.