Me and my livein ex boyfriend have been broken up for 5 months now. I ended the relationship due to his cheating with one of my neighbors and his drinking which got worse.He continues to contact me through calling me and sending letters to tell me can we get back together. And the neighbor he cheated on me with knew we were together as a couple and she did'nt care she accepted it and continued to see him. I never answer my phone when he calls but twice and told him it was over, and I never wrote him back. When I confronted him on cheating he would just lie and say it was'nt true and didn't care if she saw us together but always denied he knew her. This is the longest we been broken up and I tried everything with him from AAs to church to help with drinking nothing helped. And presently while he still tries to get back together with me he may be still seeing her. My question is he cheated on me with her knowing about us, why did she just accept it? And will he eventually cheat on her as well ?

Why do you care if he's going to cheat on her or if he's still with her? He should be none of your business anymore.

I noticed you said...


"This is the longest we been broken up"

So you've broken up before. Why did you even get back together? You must know now that nothing will ever change, no matter how many times you go out.

Stop even answering this fool, let him ruin his relationships with cheating, just make sure it isn't on you. Run as far as you can in the opposite direction, ignore him and continue on with your life.