Why dose it feel like every time I say or do something I make everyone mad at me.especially my mom she starts saying this and I know I have to do them and I say later and she starts yelling at me.sometimes I feel like killing myself so I don't every get them mad because I'm the reason everyone hates me.even my brothers and sisters say they wish I was dead.What should I do?

EVERY time? Are there any good times?

EVERY time? Are there any good times?

There is some days that nothing happeness and then my brother starts thing and starts saying this like I hope you die, I wish you were dead,go kill yourself,I hope a bomb kills you and I'm sick of it!

That's when you smile and say something nice and don't start a fight. Be the bigger person.

That's when you smile and say something nice and don't start a fight. Be the bigger person.

I don't say anything back and he won't saying things till I start crying and go to my room

Why on earth would you cry? That just gives him permission to do it again to you.

Stiffen your spine and ask him to play a game with you. Go into your best actress mode and put on an enthusiastic face. If you can do well with this situation, you will do well with difficult people the rest of your life. Start now!

Why on earth would you cry? That just gives him permission to do it again to you.

Stiffen your spine and ask him to play a game with you. Go into your best actress mode and put on an enthusiastic face. If you can do well with this situation, you will do well with difficult people the rest of your life. Start now!

Have you ever had an 11 year old hit you so hard that he makes bruses and sometime gets nifes and then puts them close to you and says he's going to kill you.I try not to cry but he always makes me and when ever we have someone over he acts lik ean angel and when they leave he's mean again.

And your parents aren't aware of this?

And your parents aren't aware of this?

They are and they take him to counciling but when he's there he acts like an angle and the counciler says he dose not need it.

they are and they take him to counciling but when hes there he acts like an angle and the counciler says he dose not need it.
Does not need what? Um, counselors are smarter than that.

So he stopped going for counseling?

Does not need what? Um, counselors are smarter than that.

So he stopped going for counseling?

He stopped going because we don't have money anymore and the conciler said it and so he stopped going.

Does not need what? Um, counselors are smarter than that.

So he stopped going for counseling?

They said he did not need it and we did not have money to pay so he stopped going.

Why was he going in the first place?

Why was he going in the first place?

He was going because he was frighting with us and yelling at us a lot and my mother was sick of it.

So the counselor said there is nothing wrong with him. He is now back home unmonitored to be a brat again. Or did the counselor give your parents some child-raising tips?

That's what happens to me a lot... Always pushed around... But, its best 2 just say what you want and stand up 4 urself- I did that 2 my little brother (he's 11 2) and he is OK towards me know. My mum helped me do this though. (She sticks up for me even though I'm nearly 14).

Kids, please write in English. Chat speak and text talk isn't English. We're an English speaking site, and text talk is against the rules of this site. Why? Because it's not a language, it's not acceptable, and anyone over the age of 40 that has half a brain can't decode this nonsense.

2 = to, too, or two.
u = you
4 = for
yourself = yourself

You will need to know how to write and communicate when you're an adult. You may think it's cute when you're 14, but it's not that cute when you're writing a resume using chat speak, and employers will not appreciate it.

Use your words!

So the counselor said there is nothing wrong with him. He is now back home unmonitored to be a brat again. Or did the counselor give your parents some child-raising tips?

Yup and the consular said let him do what he needes to do.

yup and the consular said let him do wat he needes to do.

Wow. I'm not buying that at all.

Try again. :)

Thats what happens 2 me alot... Always pushed around... But, its best 2 just say what u want and stand up 4 urself- I did that 2 my little brother (he's 11 2) and he is ok towards me know. My mum helped me do this though. (She sticks up 4 me even though im nearly 14).

Im 14 to and I try to and somedays he will leave me alone and mess with my little sister then I try to stop them and now my sis is like my brother.

Wow. I'm not buying that at all.

Try again. :)

That what I heard him say. He said let him do what he needs to do and see if what he dose is good or bad to us.

Kids, please write in English. Chat speak and text talk isn't English. We're an English speaking site, and text talk is against the rules of this site. Why? Because it's not a language, it's not acceptable, and anyone over the age of 40 that has half a brain can't decode this nonsense.

2 = to, too, or two.
u = you
4 = for
urself = yourself

You will need to know how to write and communicate when you're an adult. You may think it's cute when you're 14, but it's not that cute when you're writing a resume using chat speak, and employers will not appreciate it.

Use your words!

Well this is how teens write and I won't change how I write and its easyer 2 write like this.

that wat i heard him say. he said let him do wat he needs to do and see if wat he dose see wat he is doing.

The therapist said this?

Did that therapist also discuss what your brother said in treatment?

It's not believable. First, a therapist cannot discuss a patient with anyone, even his/her parents. Your parents could go to therapy, discuss your brother, and the therapist could then give advice about your brother, but a therapist could not mention anything about your brothers therapy to anyone. It's called Doctor patient confidentiality.

The therapist said this?

Did that therapist also discuss what your brother said in treatment?

It's not believable. First, a therapist cannot discuss a patient with anyone, even his/her parents. Your parents could go to therapy, discuss your brother, and the therapist could then give advice about your brother, but a therapist could not mention anything about your brothers therapy to anyone. It's called Doctor patient confidentiality.

There's a thing where the therapist calls the whole family in the room to discuss he is going to see if he notices what my dose wrong!!

theres a thing where the therapist calls the whole family in the room to discuss he is going to see if he notices wat my dose wrong !!!!!!

Your dose? What medication are you on, and what does that have to do with your brothers therapy?

Your dose? What medication are you on, and what does that have to do with your brothers therapy?

This is what my brothers therapy told us and I am not on meds and I'm saying nothing has changed!!

this is wat my brothers therapy told us and i am not on meds and im saying nothing has changed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm still not understanding.

You said the therapist talks about your dose and what's wrong. A dose of what? Dose is a word used to describe an amount of medication given. That's why I asked what medication you're on, because you said the therapist talks about your dose and what's wrong.

Sounds like you're on medication, and the therapist thinks you're not getting the correct dose.

If that's not what you meant to say, can you please try again.

I'm still not understanding.

You said the therapist talks about your dose and what's wrong. A dose of what? Dose is a word used to describe an amount of medication given. That's why I asked what medication you're on, because you said the therapist talks about your dose and what's wrong.

I'm not talking about meds I'm using a different dose

well this is how teens write and i wont change how i write and its easyer 2 write like this.

Then I'll report your post for going against the rules of this site, and you'll be banned.

im not talking about meds im useing a diffrent dose

Then give us the definition of this different dose so we know what you're talking about.

The definition of dose is as follows:

Noun:
A quantity of a medicine or drug taken or recommended to be taken at a particular time: "he took a dose of cough medicine".
Verb:
Administer a dose to (a person or animal): "he dosed himself with vitamins".

There is no different "dose".

Then give us the definition of this different dose so we know what you're talking about.

The definition of dose is as follows:

Noun:
A quantity of a medicine or drug taken or recommended to be taken at a particular time: "he took a dose of cough medicine".
Verb:
Administer a dose to (a person or animal): "he dosed himself with vitamins".

There is no different "dose".

Then never mind if u tell on me wow grow up I'm a teen this is how I talk.have u ever heard of a typo DOES!!

then never mind if u tell on me wow grow up im a teen this is how i talk.have u ever heard of a typo DOES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!

If you want to talk in chat speak to your friends, that's fine, but it's against the rules of this site. They're not my rules, but I do agree with them, and so did you when you joined the site.

I asked you nicely to write properly, and you came back with an attitude, said you'll write the way you want to write. No! You won't! Either you follow the rules, you leave, or you're forced to leave, those are your options. Doing what you want to isn't an option, and it's about time someone taught you that!

As for your typo, I asked you what dose you were on, and instead of saying "I made a typo", you said it's your version of dose. There's only one version of dose. You wrote the word dose, and we go by that word. If you meant does, then say so, don't keep playing games.

I have a 14 year old. He doesn't get away with this crap, and neither will you.

Now, do you want advice, or do you want to keep trying to get your way?

then never mind if u tell on me wow grow up im a teen this is how i talk.have u ever heard of a typo DOES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!


Let's see - your family has known you for 13 years and they don't like you and they don't like your attitude.

I've known you for 2 minutes and I agree with them.

If you want to talk to people who agree with you and speak whatever language it is that you are trying to speak, talk to your friends.

Let's see - your family has known you for 13 years and they don't like you and they don't like your attitude.

I've known you for 2 minutes and I agree with them.

If you want to talk to people who agree with you and speak whatever language it is that you are trying to speak, talk to your friends.

This is a teen that hasn't been brought up right. That's my opinion.

Rules are rules. She agreed to the rules of this site when she joined. Did she read them? Most likely not. But I made her aware of the rule about chat speak and instead of saying "sorry, I didn't know, I'll stop texting", she told me that she'll do what she wants, because she's a teen.

When I told her that I'd report her for disobeying the rules, I was told to grow up. No my dear, it's you that needs to grow up.

My son is 14. He would never speak this way to anyone. He understands that rules are rules, and if you don't want to follow them, there are consequences. Heck, my 10 year old understand this.

This is a case of bad parenting, or just a very bad teen. She needs to realize that there are consequences for her actions, and the world doesn't revolve around her and what she wants. I hope she learns that before it's too late.

This is a teen that hasn't been brought up right. That's my opinion.



When EVERYONE hates someone (adult or child) I always figure it's the someone, not everyone, who has the problem.

When EVERYONE hates someone (adult or child) I always figure it's the someone, not everyone, who has the problem.

I agree.

Everyone can't be wrong. :)

Then I'll report your post for going against the rules of this site, and you'll be banned.

I'm all out of greenies but I'm behind you on that.

When EVERYONE hates someone (adult or child) I always figure it's the someone, not everyone, who has the problem.

And that is something as certain as the sun coming up tomorrow.

When EVERYONE hates someone (adult or child) I always figure it's the someone, not everyone, who has the problem.

Wish I could give you a greenie for this one. Very true.

You wonder why everyone hates you... you wonder why you make people mad...

Perhaps it's because of this!!

... just saying

You wonder why everyone hates you....you wonder why you make people mad.....

Perhaps it's because of this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!

.....just sayin


What dose you mean?

What dose you mean?
Time for your meds, Miss Judy. Come with me.