I recently met this funny and mysterious guy and thought that he was hitting on me, but then another guy asked me in a common discussion how my boyfriend (which I am no longer into) was doing, and that seemed to have spurred the whole magic, cause I could not deny that I have a current boyfriend. The new guy seems to have totally backed off. How do I show him that I am actually available?

Talk to him ? Guys don't have ESP. And if you are interested in him, what is wrong about you going and talk to him ?

I recently met this funny and mysterious guy and thought that he was hitting on me, but then another guy asked me in a common discussion how my bf (which I am no longer into) was doing, and that seemed to have spurred the whole magic, cause I could not deny that I have a current bf. The new guy seems to have totally backed off. How do I show him that I am actually available?


You're not "into him" but he's your "current" boyfriend? This alone would turn me off. I don't want to be involved with someone who has a "current" boyfriend/girlfriend. It sounds like the "funny and mysterious" guy has a moral compass.

And, yes, he doesn't have ESP.

You're not available if you have a current boyfriend.

You're not available if you have a current boyfriend.


You would think so but she's "no longer into" the current (not ex) boyfriend.

You'd think the mysterious guy would know that his ESP.