I have been dating my boyfriend for nine months now and we are currently living together. In the beginning of our relationship, I found out that he lied to me about his ex girlfriend (whom he lived with right before we started dating). I was furious, but we talked and resolved the issues. But after that I feel like I can't trust him anymore. Few months after that, I found out that he posted an ad on dating website and that he have been talking to girls online about meeting up. I confront him and he admit his mistake and promise he won't do it again. Our relationship has been great, I can see that he is really trying to make things works and to keep his words, but I feel like I still can't trust him and my trust issues sometime creating problems between us.

Now, I have a job offer overseas and he wants to relocate with me. I don’t need to take this job, but it will be great for our relationship if I took this job. The thing is I'm afraid, I'm afraid that he will cheat on me or disappoint me again. And I can imagine what would I be if he leave me, in a foreign country, to be with someone else. (my boyfriend and his ex moved to my city together but then he left his ex for me).

I love him and I know that he loves me too. We have amazing relationship. But I don’t know if I can trust him.

Can you please advise.

I would really appreciate your help.

Rgds,

Ann

If you don't trust him, you don't have an "amazing relationship."

Take the job in the other county FOR YOU ALONE just for the fun and excitement and broadening of it.

Wondergirl is very accurate on this one.

No trust = no relationship.

Just don't let your love blind you. You should have left him after the lies about his ex, and he should have been sitting on the curb with his bags at the dating site incident. When are you going to draw the line?