So we met about 3.5 yrs. Ago... Love was instantly happening, true romance, we both work for the same. Company, so is his ex wich he left a few months before us. We all know each other so of course had to stop talking to his ex. It was to painful for her and I understood... We moved in together it was so awesome I was ready for this he was 39 I was 33 it was perfect! Then reality set in, money, stress and the ex. All this would bother me and he thought it was OK to just go with the flow, and I started getting angry about how he just settle for that... Things got worse! I helped get our new place got new furniture our 2 cats and everythig just crumbbled after 2.5 years. He told me to move out that it was OVER!! After 2 months I showed up at our place... We made love that day and I shouldn't of, but I did we kept meeting up @ my new place and his place and we just had very passionate sex... I thought things were going GREAT! Until he had to go out of town that involved his ex to go with him 4 other people and I got stupid crazy jealous... Brought him back to an ugly place that's when he distance himself and little by little no more sex, no more Phone calls or texts... Then I panicked I started to show up at his place I turned in to psycho girl..! I've never in my Life EVER done this but I did... After 2 weeks we meet up again and I find out that he's been talking to another woman for exact 2 weeks and she has 3 KIDS!! He says he's confused that he needs time and space... That the new girl has nothing to do with our bad relationship and that yet he loves me, and cares about me, but he needs time to be away from me! So I agree and I disconnected from him with love... I set him free and if it's going to happen again between us I hope it's not to late! I love him and I hope he finds his way back... Is it to late to distance myself again but in a better way and in a longer term from the first time? Please help!