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haneul
Sep 4, 2012, 05:53 AM
I have a boyfriend but my heart not belong to him. I love someone else, who love me too. What the best things I should do? I afraid to brake up with my boyfriend because I know he love me so much. The boy that I love now is my old friend. He understand me and don't want to disturb my relationships.
Homegirl 50
Sep 4, 2012, 08:09 AM
You are lying to your current boyfriend. Be honest with him and leave him alone. How would you like to have someone do this to you?
I don't understand this other relationship at all.
lovemelavender
Sep 4, 2012, 08:11 AM
Hun,
If you feel like you love this other boy, there's no sense in keeping this other guy on the line making him believe that he has a chance.
You need to be upfront and honest with him. Sure, it might hurt him depending on how he feels for you, but at least he can then move on with someone who will truly love him.
I wish you the best! :)
ArmstrongMiller
Sep 4, 2012, 07:17 PM
Here is my tip: do what you love, the rest. But you should be exclusive. Good luck.
whit17
Sep 6, 2012, 02:12 PM
Well, I know it is a hard decision to make, but the best thing to do is to break up with your current boyfriend. It is not fair to him that your heart isn't in your relationship and that you love someone else. Yes, it may hurt him at first, but try to let him down as gently as you can. His heart will heal in time. But don't go and say "Its over," and walk away. That will make him feel like he did something wrong when he really didn't, and he will be even more upset about it. Just let him know what the deal is and be nice about it. Like I said, his heart will heal in time.