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eddiegarzon
Sep 3, 2012, 08:34 PM
Ok so I still need some more advise no matter what happens I told my ex that I would be their for her and the baby for what ever she need and even though she has someone else I still love her is thst wrong for me to still love her? I told her that I would forgive her if she would ever give me a second chance. So whstvim asking is that know she's calling me because I guess her relationship isn't as good as she thought it would be should I be their to comfort her or is that a bad idea for ne because I'd I do I feel thst it might only be making me more blind to what could already be the end . It feels Luke it might only be giving me false hope that maybe we could still be together. I don't know what to do sometimes I don't want to answer her but It makes me feel a little less all heart broken that she talks to me and tells me that things arnt right wit her new guy but I also feel that she's just talking to me to make her self feel better and not as bad because she broke up wit me because she knows she messed up .I mean I told her that I messed up to and that were only humans and we make mistakes but I never took it that far as to find some one else .so should I keep talking to her when ever she calls me or make a stand and tell her that all I want is to communicate only when its about the baby?

J9M9K
Sep 4, 2012, 05:15 AM
Do what you need to do to take care of YOUR baby.. lf she takes you back, that's a bonus. (which she may very well do once the new dude hits the road because he doesn't want to take care of a baby that isn't his - unless of course he's a deadbeat and she is paying his way... ) - you sound young.. and you unfortunately don't realize this until you grow up a little more.. but WHY on earth would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you back? It's not worth it. If it works with her, great.. if not, find someone who can make you happy! Good Luck and congrats on the baby :)