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evette harriot
Sep 3, 2012, 01:38 AM
My husband has a female Friend met her once I did not like the look she gave, he didn't notice months went by! Something told me to search! I went into voicemail heard the messages, she said that she was not home and he must not think that she had someone inside and never wanted. To open the door and she doesn't now how to prove herself to him!! Now first,, what is he doing there at her house and wives r to know husbands female friend right! I don't trust that at all and she leaves messages all the time and she talks to him like he is her boyfriend leaving details of her days and telling him she at the subway I called her and asked her if she is sleeping with my husband! And she said she doesn't have to answer it. That! Now if a wife called me and asking that question,, truthfully. I would say point blank! No not sleeping with her husband! That's what a real women does! Right! bye. He is cheating I fell it in my bones! And when I do my night shifts working so hard to make a better life each day this husband of mine has time on his hand to do plenty wrong! And his cell bill tells me everything and the times she or he calls each other And I leave at 9pm and calls come in rite on time and the call duration is 5 to 7 minutes talk time! That mean he calling her to tell her he is coming over or she calling him to come over! Ha! Common sense!!

shimmerkisses
Sep 3, 2012, 03:44 AM
First of all honey, if he is a cheater then he don't deserve someone like u. Maybe it is just inocent but in this type of situation it rarley is. Ask your husband truthfully and what I did was say:
Your girlfriend just rang me up, she said she felt bad about you cheeting on me with her. Is this true...

If all else fails, dump him

Fr_Chuck
Sep 3, 2012, 04:28 AM
Leave him you have tried him, convicted him and executed him with not one bit of proof except you "feel"it

Men have friends, sometimes they can be women. Sort of putting video cameras in your house and drugging him with truth drugs not more you can do.

LadySam
Sep 3, 2012, 05:15 AM
Confront the husband.
Maybe he is cheating, maybe he isn't, but I wouldn't base a decision on suspicions.

Homegirl 50
Sep 3, 2012, 07:44 AM
I think if you have a gut feeling he is cheating, chances are he is. A woman knows when a another woman is looking at her husband in that way.
You called the woman, she says she does not have to answer, you need to ask him. Tell him you talked to the woman. See what he says.

teacherjenn4
Sep 3, 2012, 08:33 AM
I agree with Homegirl, go with your gut feeling. From another womn who has been in your situation, my feelings were correct. Confront him, tell him what you know and feel. Give him a chance to respond. What you choose to do after that is all up to you.