Ok here's the deal my best friend (girl) and I have known each other for 7 years. We are both in relationships but we spend a lot of time together one on one. When we are together we are very attached, holding hands, spooning under blankets, fall asleep together, she strokes my hair and we lightly tickle each other by just running fingers over arms stomach so on so forth. The sexual side we do kiss but it's only a peck on the lips, we have hooked up (French kiss) and I've sucked on her boobs during a drunken night. We always chat about us type things like she'll say we will have sex when we are both single that type of stuff. She also leaves her boyfriend at home to come to me and sleep over. And finally we tell each other that we love each other.. Before you get all abusive and blah blah about her having a boyfriend and me having a girlfriend I'm not trying to sweep her off her feet and run away in the sunset, I'd just like to know from people who have been in this experience before or a girls opinion on what she would be thinking.. do you think she wants to be more then friends where is this all going? Thank you for your time reading and your answers.

Either one of two things is going on.

You're just a friend with benefits, no commitment, no relationship, no hassle.

Or

She does like you and she does want to be with you.


The only person who can find out which of those two is the correct answer is you, by asking.


As of now though, you both are cheating, and it's not fair to both your girlfriend and her boyfriend. You both need to get together and talk about what it is you really want. If friendship is all she sees, than you both need to grow up a bit and stay away from each other, on a sexual/intimate level. This charade will do nothing but get you into trouble, and ruin all of your future relationships.