I really screwed my relationship with the most amazing girl up , I cheated on her , I know it's unforgivable... I really love her and I can't stop thinking about her.. She lost all trust and respect for me.. I broke up with her because I hooked up with another girl while she as out of town , I hate myself for all the pain I caused her.. I really love this girl and can't imagine another girl taking her place , I know she still loves me , I'm just not sure if I should let her go because of what I done or should I try to get back together with her??

I really screwed my relationship with the most amazing girl up , i cheated on her , i know it's unforgivable ... I really love her and i can't stop thinking about her.. She lost all trust and respect for me..I broke up with her because i hooked up with another girl while she as out of town , i hate myself for all the pain i caused her.. I really love this girl and can't imagine another girl taking her place , i know she still loves me , i'm just not sure if i should let her go because of what i done or should i try to get back together with her???


You say she's lost all love and respect for you - I don't think you can get back together with her.

I'd give her time and leave her alone and see what she does.

You can answer a question, because questions like this are posted frequently. If she was so amazing and you love her and can't imagine another girl taking her place why did you "hook up" with someone else when she was out of Town?

I would think that every time I left Town or you left Town you'd be "hooking up."

To be honest mate. I don't think she will take you back... That's the worst thing you could do and if you loved her so much, Than why did you cheat on her in the first place?

You say she's lost all love and respect for you - I don't think you can get back together with her.

I'd give her time and leave her alone and see what she does.

You can answer a question, because questions like this are posted frequently. If she was so amazing and you love her and can't imagine another girl taking her place why did you "hook up" with someone else when she was out of Town?

I would think that every time I left Town or you left Town you'd be "hooking up."

I was drunk when it happened , I know there's no excuse for what I did , I know she still has feelings for because she told me , all my friends and familly says I should try to get back together with her and I really want to , but at the end of the day it's her choice.. Should I let her go?

I was drunk when it happend , I know there's no excuse for what i did , I know she still has feelings for because she told me , all my friends and familly says i should try to get back together with her and I really want to , but at the end of the day it's her choice.. Should i let her go?


I don't think you have a choice. Until she has some space and time to think she's reacting to what happened.

I'd give her time.