Hi you I have been able to see spirits since I was 8 yrs old and now 27 and my son that is 5 and my daughter that is 3 months can see them too but my question is why do I get really bad headachs when the spirits are around me and I get really shakey like I'm nervous or something and feeling drained all the time right now I have seen 2 spirits at my new location and they are both males but all they do is stand near me and stare or wave their hands in my face my last location I knew the reason why I seen spirits is because about 5 or 6 people have died in the apartment complex and only 1 got my attention calling my name and walking up and down my hall way and touching me when I'm not paying attention to it but I just don't understand why I get headachs and the shakes from so I've been wearing a rosery to see if that would help but it doesn't I need advice please and also when I was a kid I would see spirits standing infron of my bed but was to scared to say anything and my family still this day thinks that I'm crazy just about any where I go I see spirits... I also have a cousin that is a few yrs older then me that can see spirits too and she normaly helps me with the spirits but I have moved to a different state recently so now its only me and the kids and my soon to be husband and his mom which neither one of them see spirits but me so I don't really say anything to them about it I guess I'm just reaching out for help should I get a medium that can help me more or should I just ignore them?

No, you should not get a medium. A medium is channeling a spirit... which is a nice way of phrasing demonic possession. Also, ignoring won't help you nor will it stop what is going on. Your headaches are simply a part of the manifestation of these spirits. Spirits manifest in many different ways, and they can affect the people seeing them in many different ways as well.

This is not a gift... and I know it is not something you asked for. Seeing these spirits is CAUSED by the spirits themselves. My advice for you is not to "develop" this any further. It can be stopped if you want it to.