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HoodedLizard
Sep 1, 2012, 10:03 PM
I am 15 years old and am scared to death thinking my mom may be cheating.My mom and my dad used to always act really close and loving and romantic. But for the last two years ever since I started high school that connection stopped, my mom started wearing really trampy clothes that reveal a lot of her private areas and she is acting extremely flurty around young guys that she finds attractive. Because she does not have a job she always is out of the house. She says that she spends the day cleaning yet I always come home to a messy house. I know my mom is an attractive lady because that's what all my friends in my school say. I am really scared because If she is my parents will divorce and I may consider suicide because my family is the most important thing to me. Please help me anybody who can help I am really opening my heart on this.

teacherjenn4
Sep 1, 2012, 10:13 PM
You don't have proof of this and even if you did, you can't predict what will happen. If your parents were ever to divorce, your family will still love you. Why would you consider suicide?

Muffin123
Sep 1, 2012, 10:37 PM
Number one, you should never take your life.

Sometimes things don't last and I'm not saying your parents can't make it work.
You can't handle this problem because its not yours the best bet is to talk to them.
Be honest.
BUT, them divorcing doesn't have anything to do with you.
Your mom and dad will love you just the same.

Homegirl 50
Sep 2, 2012, 09:54 AM
Your parents could be going through a phase and that does not mean cheating is involved or has anything to do with you.
If you are thinking suicide it's not your parents that have problems but you. Is there a counselor or someone you can talk to?