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khoke89
Sep 1, 2012, 06:14 PM
I am trying to find my biological parents. I was born in York PA September 23, 1989. Male. Brown hair, blue eyes, I love my adoptive mom very much I just want to know my biological parents. I don't know any of there names but my name Is Kevin Michael Hoke. That is my adoptive name. Please help me find them

JudyKayTee
Sep 1, 2012, 06:22 PM
I am trying to find my biological parents. I was born in York PA September 23, 1989. Male. Brown hair, blue eyes, I love my adoptive mom very much i just want to know my biological parents. I dont know any of there names but my name Is Kevin Michael Hoke. That is my adoptive name. Please help me find them


You need more information than this in order to locate your parents - I do locate people. Your hair and eye color are pretty much inconsequential.

You can always post on an adoption site, post what you have, hope someone recognizes the info and contacts you.

Ask your parents for information - they have it!

khoke89
Sep 1, 2012, 06:25 PM
My adoptive mother says she has nothing, and will never answer me

JudyKayTee
Sep 1, 2012, 06:27 PM
my adoptive mother says she has nothing, and will never answer me


Then your only hope is one the "connection/adoption" sites. And, yes, of course she has some information.

Fr_Chuck
Sep 1, 2012, 06:28 PM
Because she is hurt that you don't love and respect them as your "real" parents. That after all the years of being there for you, sitting with you when you were sick, paying for things for you. Being at your events. You don't see them as the real parents but want to find somebody who had sex and gave birth and gave you away. And somehow see them as real parents.

Most likely she goes to her room and crys after you want information.

What do you want from two strangers, most likely not even together now that you don't already have.