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semiramis78
Aug 31, 2012, 08:22 AM
I met this nice guy, he is caring, nice, kind, loves kids, is loyal and loves family, he works hard and financially he is OK. He doesn't drink much and is very much into sport. More important thing he loves me.

The problem is I thinkIi am smarter, I am more educated, our point of views are different and we don't do normally intelligent conversations.

Should I accept him as a partner for life? What would you do? I am very confused. I like him and I trust him, but I am not sure how education and level of thinking is important in life.. we both are mid 30s.

I would love to know your ideas...

Thanks.

Wondergirl
Aug 31, 2012, 08:26 AM
Listen to your gut. If you have reservations now, they will only get stronger as time goes on.

semiramis78
Aug 31, 2012, 08:43 AM
Would I have someone that I won't have any reservations about? Sometime? Just wondering...

Wondergirl
Aug 31, 2012, 09:02 AM
would I have someone that i wont have any reservations about? sometime? just wondering...
What can you live with? What annoys you now?--and that will get more annoying.

semiramis78
Aug 31, 2012, 09:06 AM
Very true indeed! Thanks... simple and effective...

talaniman
Aug 31, 2012, 11:37 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/online-dating-first-meeting-691002.html

Same guy? Doesn't matter, just date casually and see what happens without looking to far down the road. If you manage to enjoy each other and learn enough you talk about it. If differences cannot be resolved, you move forward and don't look back.