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lalaimaskin4afriend
Mar 7, 2007, 05:07 PM
Okay... here goes I am a friend of this woman. Its her first kid... she is pregrant but smokes weed every day... she needs to take a drug test does anyone know anything that she can buy so she can pass it and it won't hurt the baby I don't agree with any female doing anything while pregrant that's why I had stepped away from her since she has been pregrant but I will do this one favor by asking if there is anything she can buy that will not HARM THE BABY?? So she can at least pass this and bring her child home she has said she is going to quit but the drug needs to be done so can she take like aqua clean?? I just don't know what will not harm a baby .

shygrneyzs
Mar 7, 2007, 05:22 PM
What? You are asking if there is anything this girl can take that will fake her drug test? Sorry. Will not help you out on that. The girl needs to take the test and face the consequences.

lalaimaskin4afriend
Mar 7, 2007, 05:24 PM
That's what I say too... she wanted me to ask from people for help but I think she should face the cinsequences!! If I was a mother-to-be I would NEVER DO THAT to one of my unborn kids but I'm just trying to be a friend in the mean time but like I said I have backed myself away from this girl ever since she has been pregrant!

shygrneyzs
Mar 7, 2007, 05:26 PM
It is one thing to help a friend and it is another thing to enable behavior that will be harmful. In this case, harmful to her baby. Has she given birth yet? Has the baby been tested for drug presence?

JoeCanada76
Mar 7, 2007, 05:44 PM
No faking tests. Let this person take the consequences of her actions. That is not helping to lie. Especially when a baby is involved. Do you want to be responsible for a baby that is mentally retarded or dead or is addicted because of all the drug use. If you help your friend in lying you are responsible for the babies health as well.

If not then let your friend be tested. Positive and then the necessary counseling.

Joe