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shada95
Aug 31, 2012, 12:08 AM
He broke up with me after year... without reason he say's he's boring he can't take this relationship any more.. but I can't let him go I'm always calling him to talk when I see him talking with another girls I'm starting to cry and I'm starting a fight with the with the girls he talken to I love him so much how can I mOve on in my life??
JudyKayTee
Aug 31, 2012, 05:55 AM
He broke up with me after year ...without reason he say's he's boring he can't take this relationship any more ..but i can't let him go im always calling him to talk when i see him talking with another girls im starting to cry and im starting a fight with the withe the girls he talken to i love him so much how can i mOve on in my life??????!
A big beginning is to believe him when he says he can't take your relationship any longer - and stop contacting him.
It's not a question of you "can't" let hm go - you have to let him go.
You can't make anybody love you, and if you continue to badger him you will also lose his respect.
Give him time and space and see what happens.
shada95
Aug 31, 2012, 06:35 AM
A big beginning is to believe him when he says he can't take your relationship any longer - and stop contacting him.
It's not a question of you "can't" let hm go - you have to let him go.
You can't make anybody love you, and if you continue to badger him you will also lose his respect.
Give him time and space and see what happens.
But if I give him this space he will be with another girl
JudyKayTee
Aug 31, 2012, 06:44 AM
But if i give him this space he will be with another girl
Right. If you don't give him space he will be with another girl.
Re-read what I said. You CANNOT make someone love you, date you, "be" with you, quit smoking or do anything else.
He told you very clearly that your relationship is over.
Respect him and respect yourself and leave him alone. Don't be desperate and groveling.
shada95
Aug 31, 2012, 06:47 AM
Right. If you don't give him space he will be with another girl.
Re-read what I said. You CANNOT make someone love you, date you, "be" with you, quit smoking or do anything else.
He told you very clearly that your relationship is over.
Respect him and respect yourself and leave him alone. Don't be desperate and groveling.
I will try to do that and give him his space
LOLlover
Sep 1, 2012, 05:48 PM
Oviously the relationship isn't going to progress if he's not interested then he isn't interested, you have to face those facts.Remember there are plenty more fish in the sea
shada95
Sep 3, 2012, 05:32 AM
oviously the relationship isn't going to progress if he's not interested then he isn't interested, you have to face those facts.Remember their are plenty more fish in the sea
But how can I see him with this new girl :'(
JudyKayTee
Sep 3, 2012, 06:12 AM
But how can i see him with this new girl :'(
There is no other choice - you need to act like an adult old enough to have a boyfriend and live your life.
I have to know this question is one that cannot be answered by anything but "you have no choice."
shada95
Sep 3, 2012, 11:28 AM
I know my ex have a new girlfriend so I want him to broke up with her.. I opened Facebook with her name and I put some pic for her.. my ex know that's was me he call me we had a fight what can I do I know what I did was wrong but I felt jealous :(((
JudyKayTee
Sep 3, 2012, 11:45 AM
i know my ex have a new gf so i want him to broke up with her .. I opened facebook with her name and i put some pic for her .. my ex know that's was me he call me we had a fight what can i do i know what i did was wrong but I felt jealous :(((
You have post after post after post about what Islam allows and doesn't allow, what is forbidden and what is not - but you have no problem opening a FB account in someone else's name?
Jealousy is no excuse. You've posted before about this toxic relationship. He wants NOTHING to do with you. What part of that don't you understand? He has said very clearly that he is FINISHED with both you and the relationship.
At best I think you are a religious hypocrite - at worst you are a stalker.
Leave this man and his girlfriend alone before you are arrested.
Is she going to pursue criminal charges against you over the FB postings?
shada95
Sep 3, 2012, 11:55 AM
You have post after post after post about what Islam allows and doesn't allow, what is forbidden and what is not - but you have no problem opening a FB account in someone else's name?
Jealousy is no excuse. You've posted before about this toxic relationship. He wants NOTHING to do with you. What part of that don't you understand? He has said very clearly that he is FINISHED with both you and the relationship.
At best I think you are a religious hypocrite - at worst you are a stalker.
Leave this man and his girlfriend alone before you are arrested.
Is she going to pursue criminal charges against you over the FB postings?
No she didn't know about the FB he didn't tell her.. how can I fix the problem with my ex he won't pick up my calls
JudyKayTee
Sep 3, 2012, 12:08 PM
No she didn't know about the FB he didn't tell her .. how can i fix the problem with my ex he wont pick up my calls
You need professional help.
You are religious - but fraud isn't a problem for you.
He's told you he wants no part of you - that doesn't change anything for you.
He's told you wants no part of a relationship with you - and you keep persisting.
I wouldn't pick up your calls either. I would guess at some point or another he's going to accuse you of stalking him - and her.
You think she won't find out about FB?
Leave him alone - there is nothing else left to say.
He's FINISHED with you, and the reasons are becoming very obvious.
JudyKayTee
Sep 3, 2012, 05:08 PM
You posted that you overdosed, tried to kill yourself. Twice, in fact.
Now you are back on line. What happened?
shada95
Sep 4, 2012, 02:29 AM
You posted that you overdosed, tried to kill yourself. Twice, in fact.
Now you are back on line. What happened?
Im okay right now :)
joypulv
Sep 4, 2012, 03:04 AM
People aren't broken toys or cars that won't run. You don't 'fix' people. He doesn't want you. I suspect that by now he can't stand you. You need a life of your OWN, and stop obsessing over a man. Start some courses and study a lot. Meet new people. Unrequited love happens a million times a day all over the world.
JudyKayTee
Sep 4, 2012, 05:33 AM
Im okay right now :)
You are childish, foolish and irresponsible - you posted TWICE yesterday that you had taken medication to kill yourself and were waiting to die.
Now you're back with a smiley face.
If this is how you behave in person I can well understand why your boyfriend wants no part of your juvenile behavior.
I was concerned - very concerned - about you. And here you are, smiley face and all.
You are a taker and in this case you took advantage of me.
shada95
Sep 4, 2012, 05:39 AM
You are childless, foolish and irresponsible - you posted TWICE yesterday that you had taken medication to kill yourself and were waiting to die.
Now you're back with a smiley face.
If this is how you behave in person I can well understand why your boyfriend wants no part of your juvenile behavior.
I was concerned - very concerned - about you. And here you are, smiley face and all.
You are a taker and in this case you took advantage of me.
What do you want me back with a cry face?! What if god ddn't want me to die what should I do!! Don't be so rude with me
JudyKayTee
Sep 4, 2012, 05:52 AM
What do you want me back with a cry face ?!!!! What if god ddn't want me to die what should i do !!!!! Don't be so rude with me
Be rude with you? You're the one posting you TOOK medicine, not that you were planning to take it, and were sitting, waiting to die. Maybe you think that's funny. I don't.
Please keep God out of this - was it God's idea that you would open two, not one but two, suicide threads?
So - did you take the medication or not? Was that your way of seeing how involved and upset you could get other people?
No, I think you should get off the Internet and go for professional help.
On other threads you are preaching religion and what God wants, and then you pull a stunt like that?
You have problems. You're stalking your "ex," you're making up FB accounts in the name of someone he is dating currently, you're posting suicide threats.
Get help.
JudyKayTee
Sep 4, 2012, 07:24 AM
People aren't broken toys or cars that won't run. You don't 'fix' people. He doesn't want you. I suspect that by now he can't stand you. You need a life of your OWN, and stop obsessing over a man. Start some courses and study a lot. Meet new people. Unrequited love happens a million times a day all over the world.
You missed the "I've just overdosed and I'm going to die" - not once but on two separate threads.
This OP is a master manipulator. The boyfriend has obviously seen that and moved on!
shada95
Sep 10, 2012, 02:29 PM
What should I do to deal with this?
My ex boyfriend after he break up with me he has a new girlfriend... I need to move on so I have boyfriend now but I'm still thinking about my ex I can't forget him I don't love my new bd even he's so nice with
Me... Should I. Give him time to make me love him and forget all about ex boyfriend
Magpie95
Sep 10, 2012, 03:24 PM
It is unfair to your current boyfriend to stay with him in hopes of loving him one day. Think about how you would want to be treated if the situation was reversed. Plus, it sounds like you are not over your ex. So, you shouldn't be in a relationship until you are. That being said, the best thing to do is to be honest with your current boyfriend. Take some time to be by yourself until you can sort things out.
Fr_Chuck
Sep 10, 2012, 06:24 PM
You should not have gotten a new one, till you were over the old one.
You need to break all contact with old one. No looking up on Facebook, no text, no talking, and get over him, then you are ready to start dating again.
Or just date, don't try and make this a serious dating
talaniman
Sep 10, 2012, 10:51 PM
Jumping from one guy to another before you have gotten over the first guy is not fair, and very deceitful, and selfish.
How old are you?
shada95
Sep 11, 2012, 04:37 AM
Jumping from one guy to another before you have gotten over the first guy is not fair, and very deceitful, and selfish.
How old are you?
We broke about about 3 monthes evreyone said to me be with another man to forget him.. Im a 18 years old
JudyKayTee
Sep 11, 2012, 04:51 AM
Jumping from one guy to another before you have gotten over the first guy is not fair, and very deceitful, and selfish.
How old are you?
The OP posted TWICE that she had overdosed and was preparing to die. Both posts were removed because of their troubling nature. I, for one, believed OP and was very concerned. The explanation - God didn't want her to die.
She also posts on the Islam Board.
Deceitful and selfish does not begin to describe OP. The next day she was back with a smiley face.
Read through the thread - she cannot "keep" a boyfriend because of her over the top, dramatic behavior. She is a master manipulator.
I believe before anyone responds they should be well aware of the background. I, for one, am not interested in another day of false suicide statements.