I recently got out of a relationship with a really nice girl we have been together for more than 5 years
I gave up everything for her I quit my job my money I gave up my dream my time just to see her smile and hardly ever saw it she hooked up with this guy that treats her like trash and does not respect women the way they should be respected
She left him and wanted to come back to me and I refused
My question is
Did I do the right thing or not?
Guilt is killing me

If you were not getting what you thought you should from the relationship any way, why should you feel guilty?
I want to know why you would give up your job , money and dreams for her, why you felt you had to?

If you were not getting what you thought you should from the relationship any way, why should you feel guilty?
I want to know why you would give up your job , money and dreams for her, why you felt you had to?

Thank you that really helped

I recently got out of a relationship with a really nice girl we have been together for more than 5 years
i gave up everything for her i quit my job my money i gave up my dream my time just to see her smile and hardly ever saw it she hooked up with this guy that treats her like trash and does not respect women the way they should be respected
she left him and wanted to come back to me and i refused
my question is
did i do the right thing or not?
guilt is killing me


Yes, you did the right thing for her long-term welfare.

Just so I have this straight in your opinion how should women be treated? With respect?

And way more than just respect

And way more than just respect

And an example of that respect is the way you talk to people on AMHD, both women and men?

You gave up your job just to see her smile? What does that mean? The thought of you unemployed, without money, made her happy?

Amhd?

Amhd?


Look around you. Figure out where you're posting.

And an example of that respect is the way you talk to people on AMHD, both women and men?

You gave up your job just to see her smile? What does that mean? The thought of you unemployed, without money, made her happy?

No so I can spend more time with her

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So you quit your job so you could spend more time with her? How were you supporting yourself?
Thinking back, did that make sense to you?

How old are you?

So you quit your job so you could spend more time with her? How were you supporting yourself?
Thinking back, did that make sense to you?

To be honest no
After I reveiwed my life now I know how stupid I was

How old are you?


I suspect she saw the bigger picture - this person is truly flawed. Bad decision after worse decision. In and out of jail (admittedly). https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-society-culture/anarchy-violence-698171.html

I prefer that I stay unknown to everyone

I prefer that i stay unknown to everyone


I know, you keep saying that. Who are you talking to? I don't see you being asked that question... again.

Oh, I see - your age would tip us off to your Country. Got it.

I have my reasons

I think you are young thinking you are a deep thinker.

No not really

Based on the posts I'd guess 17, or younger.

And again not really

That's what I'm thinking. A teenager

And again not really
Well I'm not going to play guess my age. Your question has been answered and I'm done. I see no point in continuing this since you are trying to be ambiguous

Neither do I
Thank you for your help