I am 26. Have recently engaged in having sex. However I seem to be bad in the area. My erections come and go even while I am inside or getting a handjob. I have yet to satisfy my partner. This has put a strain on our relationship.
I admit I am busy with school and have a lot of things on my mind as well. In addition I do not feel the need to masturbate as often as I did when I was younger. It is almost none.

Was I born broken? Any advice or help.

-Sad

I am 26. Have recently engaged in having sex. However I seem to be bad in the area. My erections come and go even while I am inside or getting a handjob. I have yet to satisfy my partner. This has put a strain on our relationship.
I admit I am busy with school and have a lot of things on my mind as well. In addition I do not feel the need to masturbate as often as I did when I was younger. It is almost none.

Was I born broken? Any advice or help.

-Sad


When was the last time you had a physical exam? That's a starting point.

Judy is absolutely right here. Losing your "erection" can be from multiple things. Ranging from psychological to physical.

Might as well rule out the physical. It'll give you more insight on where to focus to improve the situation.

Good Luck!