Aben
Aug 27, 2012, 09:09 PM
Good Evening,
I'm kind of new to this forum but I'm very depressed and don't have very many people who I can trust or talk to. I known my boyfriend for 8 years but I just started recently dating him a year ago and during that time I put him in Hospitals to get him detox and a 2 year rehab which he got out. I paid for motels, tried to get him to find a job only to find out that he got fired from pretty much all of them for drinking on the job. His recent stint was he stole a 6 pack from Walmart but they caught him. Anyway, my point is I been by his side, and now that his family has decided to help him as long as he does not drink. He abandons me. And from what I can tell he has stop drinking and is working at IHOP. He says its my attitude and that I always bring drama. I don't bring anything, he brings drama by making me upset. He has my IPAD and he doesn't want the letters I wrote him from rehab and everything that is at my house... I have all his stuff and he doesn't want it. Everything that's his... I have to figure out what to do with it but what really hurts me is he doesn't want my letters I wrote him in rehab. I wrote him everyday. I miss him... he was my best and only friend not just my boyfriend and I'm glad he's doing good but I don't understand after all I did for him I'm left with nothing. I just need some encouraging words of wisdom and advice to help me deal with this. I been crying non stop. And one more thing... what hurts too is no matter what I stood by him and he has done a lot of awful stuff but I saw the good in him and I believed in him and now... I'm nothing to him. Like I said anything to lift my spirits would be great... thank you.
I'm kind of new to this forum but I'm very depressed and don't have very many people who I can trust or talk to. I known my boyfriend for 8 years but I just started recently dating him a year ago and during that time I put him in Hospitals to get him detox and a 2 year rehab which he got out. I paid for motels, tried to get him to find a job only to find out that he got fired from pretty much all of them for drinking on the job. His recent stint was he stole a 6 pack from Walmart but they caught him. Anyway, my point is I been by his side, and now that his family has decided to help him as long as he does not drink. He abandons me. And from what I can tell he has stop drinking and is working at IHOP. He says its my attitude and that I always bring drama. I don't bring anything, he brings drama by making me upset. He has my IPAD and he doesn't want the letters I wrote him from rehab and everything that is at my house... I have all his stuff and he doesn't want it. Everything that's his... I have to figure out what to do with it but what really hurts me is he doesn't want my letters I wrote him in rehab. I wrote him everyday. I miss him... he was my best and only friend not just my boyfriend and I'm glad he's doing good but I don't understand after all I did for him I'm left with nothing. I just need some encouraging words of wisdom and advice to help me deal with this. I been crying non stop. And one more thing... what hurts too is no matter what I stood by him and he has done a lot of awful stuff but I saw the good in him and I believed in him and now... I'm nothing to him. Like I said anything to lift my spirits would be great... thank you.