She is my neighbor. We meet as friends and grew into something more. We dated for 9 months but we were connected to the hip since we met. I fell hard for her. When I first met her she just had a baby. She also has a 7 yr old girl. At first I wasn't sure if I wanted to date someone with kids but I fell hard for them just the same. Any ways.I just moved to the state so I didn't know many people. We were doing good. I told her I loved her. But she said she didn't fell the same yet. Then she started to tell me she need space and that we should just be friends because friends are save. But I wanted more. I agree to start taking things slow with her. We still spent almost all our time together. It was just so easy. She also had an ex that was her best friend. And like a father to her 7 yr old. And he didn't like me from the beginning. And I know that he would say thing to her about me. And give her guilt trips for not spending any time with him or needing him any more. We would break up than make up. She just not knowing what she wanted. She would ask for space I would give it to her and she would pull me back.

She started telling me that she only wanted to see me like three times a week and I wanted to spend all my time with her. And she did to but all of a suddend she started telling me all this. We never fought or argued. I would tell her I was falling hard for her and she would tell me the same but follow it up with I don't like this feeling. I would also say I'm starting to miss you a lot. She would say it back but say I don't want to. I just don't get. I know all her past relationship have been bad. And she asked me one day when my second head was going to pop out. But there is no second head. I just truly care about her and her kids.

I though we were doing good for awhile and she started talking space again. She just need space. That she thought she was ready for a relationship but she wasn't. So I started giving her space. Than She told me that she only wanted to be frinds that we could be together again in the future but right now all she wants to give me is a friendship. I didn't want that so. I made the mistake and I begged and pleaded ever chance I got. Texting calling her. She told me one night that she could take it no more that I'm just to stressfull for her and push way too much and doesn't even want to be friends with me.

Living right next door makes it hard to not run into each other. I found out she met someone when she finally gave me the I really need space. I stopped coming around so much. But every time I would bring us up. I know it just pushed her further away. She would always text me if I didn't contact her. Like How are you, why you move your car, whatever. But She started seeing someone else. She told me about this person. She told me that they fight and argue and call each other names. They work together and if my ex does something he doesn't like he will start flirting with girl in front of her. I don't get why she wants to be with someone like this. When I was so nice to her and truly cared about her. I want her back if I ignore her could I get her back. If I go no contact. Because she know I'm always there now for her. Or does it not matter because she seeing someone else.

She is my neighbor. We meet as friends and grew into something more. We dated for 9 months but we were connected to the hip since we met. I fell hard for her. When I first met her she just had a baby. She also has a 7 yr old girl. At first I wasnt sure if I wanted to date someone with kids but I fell hard for them just the same. Any ways.I just moved to the state so I didn't know many people. We were doing good. I told her I loved her. But she said she didnt fell the same yet. Then she started to tell me she need space and that we should just be friends because friends are save. But I wanted more. I agree to start taking things slow with her. We still spent almost all our time together. It was just so easy. She also had an ex that was her bestfriend. and like a father to her 7 yr old. And he didnt like me from the beginning. And I know that he would say thing to her about me. And give her guilt trips for not spending any time with him or needing him any more. We would break up than make up. She just not knowing what she wanted. She would ask for space I would give it to her and she would pull me back.

She started telling me that she only wanted to see me like three times a week and I wanted to spend all my time with her. And she did to but all of a suddend she started telling me all this. We never fought or argued. I would tell her I was falling hard for her and she would tell me the same but follow it up with I dont like this feeling. I would also say I'm starting to miss you alot. She would say it back but say I dont want to. I just dont get. I know all her past relationship have been bad. And she asked me one day when my second head was going to pop out. But there is no second head. I just truely care about her and her kids.

I though we were doing good for awhile and she started talking space again. She just need space. That she thought she was ready for a relationship but she wasn't. So I started giving her space. Than She told me that she only wanted to be frinds that we could be together again in the future but right now all she wants to give me is a friendship. I didnt want that so. I made the mistake and I begged and pleaded ever chance I got. texting calling her. She told me one night that she could take it no more that im just to stressfull for her and push way to much and doesnt even want to be friends with me.

Living right next door makes it hard to not run into each other. I found out she met someone when she finaly gave me the I really need space. I stoped coming around so much. But every time I would bring us up. I know it just pushed her further away. She would always text me if I didnt contact her. Like How are you, why you move your car, whatever. But She started seeing someone else. She told me about this person. She told me that they fight and argue and call each other names. They work together and if my ex does something he doesnt like he will start flirting with girl in front of her. I dont get why she wants to be with someone like this. When I was so nice to her and truely cared about her. I want her back if i ignore her could I get her back. If I go no contact. Because she know I'm always there now for her. Or does it not matter because she seeing someone else.


This is more like a blog. If I have this right you have an "ex" who lives next door to you. For whatever reason she still confides in your concerning her problems with her current boyfriend.

No one knows why she wants to be with "someone like this" except, of course, her. Next time she complains, why don't you ask her?

You can't make someone come back. If she knows you are "always there for her" but has a boyfriend, that's her choice. I'd stay away.

She is with someone else.

Bottom line is, she does not care for you the way you care for her and has told you that numerous times.
You need to just stay away from her.

Bottom line is, she does not care for you the way you care for her and has told you that numerous times.
You need to just stay away from her.


And in a nutshell - that sums it all up! And well!

I think u should find someone else this person oviously doesn't want to be with you so why don't u just be friends and stop trying to be more then that

I think u should find someone else this person oviously dosent want to be with you so why dont u just be friends and stop trying to be more then that


Please don't use text speak. AMHD doesn't allow it and it makes it difficult to take your answers seriously.