yingwan
Aug 25, 2012, 02:25 AM
John and I met in a christian group in university. After he graduated and left for home, we remained closely in touch via Facebook and skype on a daily basis. But we were just friends and I did not have any romantic feelings for him... in fact, he has a crush on my friend.
When he visited over the winter break, things started to happen. My friend rejected him. And he started showing feelings towards me and I just went with the flow. To put into perspective, we were emotionally connected but not physically... and I’m pleased it appeared as such, at least for now. Mutual friends started to tease us after he left for home. I outrightly denied having any feelings for him (not sure if they told him). John and I remained in touch... but he suddenly pulled away one day after I casually asked him about a girl (it was meant to be a joke!). For the past one month, he has been reluctant to talk to me. But when he did, he sounds fine. I tried to apologise and asked if I annoyed him... he denied so. But still refused to communicate. He has been talking to all other mutual friends but not to me. It hurts really badly.
He’s coming over next month and invited me and some mutual friends to a trip. I’m not sure if I should go and how should I react.
When he visited over the winter break, things started to happen. My friend rejected him. And he started showing feelings towards me and I just went with the flow. To put into perspective, we were emotionally connected but not physically... and I’m pleased it appeared as such, at least for now. Mutual friends started to tease us after he left for home. I outrightly denied having any feelings for him (not sure if they told him). John and I remained in touch... but he suddenly pulled away one day after I casually asked him about a girl (it was meant to be a joke!). For the past one month, he has been reluctant to talk to me. But when he did, he sounds fine. I tried to apologise and asked if I annoyed him... he denied so. But still refused to communicate. He has been talking to all other mutual friends but not to me. It hurts really badly.
He’s coming over next month and invited me and some mutual friends to a trip. I’m not sure if I should go and how should I react.