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RawrLikeATurtle
Aug 19, 2012, 10:12 AM
I am not fully sure if I am or not. This may have no reason to be here but my parents are divorced, but every time I go to my dad's my mom gets pissed, her normal saying is that I'm a trator. She always calls me worthless and tells me I'm stupid, annoying, idiotic, dumb, a , and hated by everyone. She once threw me agenst a wall and left a cut on my back from the desk I ran into. She always threatens us that she will stick my head in the doorway and slam the door shut, or that I don't get to go see my friends (after I make plans and I am excited about it). I had cut for a period and when I told her she hit me three times, left me in my room, took me out again, hit me three times again, and set me back into my room. I am mostly always scared to go talk to her and ask questions because I don't know how she will react. I feel like school is a safe haven for me and that is why I love it so much. I get A's and B's and yet I still can do better. My best is never enough, it feels like, and I always feel like near her.

Thanks for taking time out of your day to try to help me findout if it is or not.

Wondergirl
Aug 19, 2012, 10:15 AM
What do you do that she abuses you? What behavior?

RawrLikeATurtle
Aug 20, 2012, 05:20 PM
I sont knowto tell the truth I don't know... sometimes it is for when she is just annoyied and me and my sibblings talk ti each other othertimes I don't know at all

Wondergirl
Aug 20, 2012, 05:27 PM
I'm wondering if you set her off with what you do, or if she has an anger problem and is looking for trouble wherever she can find it.

backpack2389
Aug 20, 2012, 06:12 PM
From your description it sounds like your mother is physically and emotionally abusing you. Do you have a school counselor you can talk to about this to maybe get some help?

JudyKayTee
Aug 20, 2012, 06:22 PM
She was angry because you were skipping school? Is that what you meant by "cutting school"?

Perhaps you have a problem with authority - I do notice that when advised that AMHD does not do homework you posted an answer anyway.

Is that a problem for your mother?

RawrLikeATurtle
Aug 20, 2012, 07:51 PM
No I had cut... not school my arm and I finish all my homework.. my friends call me a goody two shoes because I have never been in trouble with authority

JudyKayTee
Aug 21, 2012, 05:27 AM
no i had cut......not school my arm and i finish all my homework..my friends call me a goody two shoes because i have never been in trouble with authority


If you are cutting is very possible that your mother is simply frustrated, worried, feels she has no options.

RawrLikeATurtle
Aug 22, 2012, 02:31 PM
Was cutting after... she started this at the beginning of school last year... or so I knowticed
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J_9
Aug 22, 2012, 02:34 PM
If your mother is truly doing these things you say she is, it would be wise for you to talk to your counselor at school