Can't get over my ex. We went out for 2 years and everything was good for most part but got into a lot of silly arguments and she broke up with me about a month ago saying she just needed time to herself. I'm having trouble not contacting her and now she just ignores me. I know I have to leave her alone if there any chance for us to get back together but its hard not knowing what her real intentions are.

Bird67,

First of all, I welcome you to this beautiful site!

If,

.....but got into a lot of silly arguments and she broke up with me about a month ago saying she just needed time to herself.

It was natural. You hit that branch of the tree with a hammer, on which you were perching/sitting. Is not it?

And, obviously -

im having trouble not contacting her and now she just ignores me.

And, you know it well that


i know i have to leave her alone if there any chance for us to get back together

And, even God does not know, what to talking of you or by the way, anyone knowing -



but its hard not knowing what her real intentions are.

So, what is the question?

cant get over my ex. we went out for 2 years and everything was good for most part but got into a lot of silly arguments and she broke up with me about a month ago saying she just needed time to herself. im having trouble not contacting her and now she just ignores me. i know i have to leave her alone if there any chance for us to get back together but its hard not knowing what her real intentions are.


There's always a chance people will get back together. How big a chance? Hard to tell.

You said you are having trouble not contacting her but you also said she just ignores me. Does that mean you have contacted her and she's ignored you?

Yes, the more you push the more she will back up. You need to leave her alone to sort things through.