Ok so I was seeing this girl that I was friends with. But... here's the twist... she has a boyfriend and he left for deployment so she started talking to me. She would always call or tell me how her boyfriend was a jerk and she caught him online talking to girls and sending sexual videos to them. After a few weeks she and I started telling each other we loved each other. She would always call me when she woke up and when she went to bed she would call me to fall asleep on the phone with me every night. We would hang out every day and go do fun things every now and then and go to the movies like 2 times a week. Well she said she was torn because she is in love with him and me and that she needs to go back to him when he comes home from the end of his deployment. She would always get super jealous when she heard I was texting one of my chick friends and if even I was watching TV because it could have girls on it... well her boyfriend was coming back from afg. From deployment and she kept telling me for months how she is not going to be spending the nights over there anymore because she wants to be able to see me, she was crying and said that she wants to break up with him and she wants to be with me, and that I am her soul mate. But when he came back and she got him from the airport I didn't hear from her tell the next day. And she has been texting me how much she has been missing me and she loves me. But she has spend the night over at his house the past week and she has not calleld or seen me yet. She also had about 8 different stickers on her car that made her car very easy to spot, but I went by the house the other night to see if she was staying over there or down the hill and she has all of the stickers off her car all of the sudden... she just kept one very small army sticker that you can bairly see... after about 2 years of having all these stickers... why would she play me like this if she says she really loves me? She use to always say how much she missed me and she needed to see me and she can't sleep without me on the phone. I know she is over there sleeping with him and she is having sex with him and they are going out and doing things together and it kills me so much because she is the first girl I have ever loved. Should I tell the guy what she did when she was away? How she was having sex with me and telling me she loved me? I feel so used and like it was all a game to her and that she was just lonely because he was gone for the year and needed someone to replace him for the time being and maybe she is just still telling me she loves me and all that and hiding her car because she does not want him to find out what she has been doing the past year. Because if she really loved me wouldn't she be with me or want to see me at all in the past week? I don't know what to do... I feel so used.

Well I hate to break it to you, but she isn't worth your time. I know you love her but she did use you. And if you tell him wich I would you can kiss her good bye for sure. But he deserves the truth because I'm on the other side I'm married and my husband cheated on me.