I will start with he is not my boyfirend never was but we were close... Well it all started when I would notice that every time I was I would see him he would give me a hug then the minute he seen her... he didn't know who I was, and she would act as if she never seen him even though they were right in front of each other and ever since that day I was suspicious about her because they have been introduced (kind of) to each every time we see each other and you just don't forget people that easy... so I am telling my co worker about this situation but from a stand point of me liking this guy and thinking he is just being rude but my co workers response hit my intution that I had already had in my head he said and I quote "he's probably messing with someone you know, so he acts like he doesnt know you cause he doesnt want to hurt your feelings" then I get home and tell my roommate this theory and her first response before I even finished my sentence her response was "I would never mess with your man" now she is a hibitual liar and bad at it, I have tested her so I can get a baseline of her lying and she tends to jump to conclusion and has a high pitched voice and that's what the response was a jump to conclusion with a high pitched voice... I have left him behind for other reasons and my roommate will remain that or lower nothing close to a friend I never considered her one but ever since I brought that up she has been trying to act as if I have a problem with her she says I have so much hostility towards her, its like a cheater trying to accuse their mate of cheating or a cheater doing odd things because they cheated... I need someone else's point of view why because randomly today I said I am going to hit this guy up why I don't know cause I have know feelings towards him so it me hitting him up the gut feeling was he needs to tell me something then my roommate came out her room and just sat smiling and not saying anything and we are all animals and know when something is wrong (but her lol)so I don't know what to think 6 months later I have this same feeling about a situation out of nowhere... am I over thinking it??

I will start off with he is not my boyfirend never was but we were close ....Well it all started when I would notice that everytime I was I would see him he would give me a hug then the minute he seen her ...he didnt know who I was, and she would act as if she never seen him even though they were right in front of each other and ever since that day I was suspicious about her because they have been introduced (kind of) to each every time we see each other and you just dont forget people that easy...so i am telling my co worker about this situation but from a stand point of me liking this guy and thinking he is just being rude but my co workers response hit my intution that I had already had in my head he said and I quote "he's probably messing with someone you know, so he acts like he doesnt know you cause he doesnt want to hurt your feelings" then I get home and tell my roomate this theory and her first response before I even finished my sentence her response was "I would never mess with your man" now she is a hibitual liar and bad at it, I have tested her so I can get a baseline of her lieing and she tends to jump to conclusion and has a high pitched voice and thats what the response was a jump to conclusion with a high pitched voice ..... I have left him behind for other reasons and my roomate will remain that or lower nothing close to a friend I never considered her one but ever since I brought that up she has been trying to act as if I have a problem with her she says I have so much hostility towards her, its like a cheater trying to accuse their mate of cheating or a cheater doing odd things because they cheated ...I need someone else's point of view why because randomly today I said I am going to hit this guy up why i dont know cause I have know feelings towards him so it me hitting him up the gut feeling was he needs to tell me something then my roomate came out her room and just sat smiling and not saying anything and we are all animals and know when something is wrong (but her lol)so idk what to think 6 months later I have this same feeling about a situation out of nowhere...am I over thinking it???


The lack of punctuation makes this almost impossible to read and understand. You start by saying you think your best friend slept with your boyfriend, and then you change it to he's not your boyfriend, never was.

Yes, I think you're overthinking things. I also think that if this woman is your best friend you really need to find some new friends.

I stopped reading at the first sentence, " He is not my boyfriend" if he is not your boyfriend, then it does not matter. He is free to sleep with her if he wants.

It is not cheating if he is not a boyfriend.

I stopped reading at the first sentence, " He is not my boyfriend" if he is not your boyfriend, then it does not matter. He is free to sleep with her if he wants.

it is not cheating if he is not a boyfriend.

Oops! You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Fr_Chuck again.

Nailed the head on this one Chuck.

So the world is supposed to bow down to you? He is not entitled to be with you if you're not even together. Looks like you learned a valuable lesson in life here. You can't always have your cake and eat it too.