I want to start my stating that my husband and I have been married for 3 years, and we have no major problems, yes the occasional argument, but nothing big. In the last 2 months I got a new coworker who is the same age as myhusband and I and we all three of us have been hanging out a lot on weekends and during the work week. At lunch my coworker and I go to the gym to do racketball, and I go several hours after work. We always invite other people to come play after work and my husband also goes with us the majority of the time. When ever my coworker is with us we have friends and family with us as well, he also has built a relationship with my husband and the two of them hang out on there own as well as with me. My friends and Family have started to ask and accuse me of cheating on my husband to my husband, everyone thinks that because we I go to the gym with out my husband because he doesn't want to go everyday. I don't know why or what to do to get it through their heads that I am not cheating and would never cheat on my husband. My husband is friends with my coworker and trust me and him when we tell him that we would never do anything but I am really getting irritated with everyone thinking that I am. I have even told my husband that if he ever thought that I was messing around on him that I would quit going to the gym with my coworker, and my husband insists that he doesn't think anything is going on and that he doesn't want me to stop because of what everyone is saying. What do I do.

Tell people to go to hell and mind their own business.

I get that sort of crap with my best friend all the time, because we're VERY close, and of opposite genders.

My husband trusts us together. Everyone else thinks that the second we're alone, we're having wild, passionate, kinky sex -- which couldn't be further from the truth.

Seriously... if people bring it up, just laugh and say "Do you REALLY think so? I never thought of it like THAT!"