First of all he didn't say he loves and misses me back, and then always when I want him to call me or I call him, he's like I'm busy or I will call you later, and he never did and he doesn't call me baby or bay or babe anymore.

Taviusgirl,

Welcome to this beautiful site, first!

What are your ages?
Just watch him for a while. If his such behaviour persists, then say 'good bye' to him.

I'm 13 and he is 14 and thanks I really like and love him but I don't know I feel like we drifting apart

Which country (both of) you are from? In most of the countries, the minors are not allowed to have such relationships. Just concentrate on your studies. Friendship is fine, intimacy is good but the four-lettered word 'love' should interfere in your life only after you cross the earlier part of your teenage. Just be adults and then you can have love, sex and anything under the sun. For the time being, just focus on your studies and your parents. Love your parents. I hope you got my point. Good luck!

First of all he didn't say he love and miss me back and then always when I want him to call me or I call him he be like I'm busy or I will call u later and he never did and he doesn't call me baby or bae or babe anymore

I don't know that he's cheating. What else is going on in his life? Is he getting stressed about going back to school? Are his parents on him for something?

How is he when he sees you, when you are together?

We live in the u.s.a and we have been dating for 4 and 1/2 months and my family likes him and wants to meet him

I just know he is bipolar and he has a disease and a disorder and he almost went to jail for getting in a fight

He is good when we are together and I don't know I just know his mom was mad at him about his fight

Hello is anybody there

Hello is anybody there


This isn't a chat board - it's a question and answer board and so you post your question, the people on line answer. Some come back, some never do, a new person joins with an answer.

It's not like an ongoing chat.

Anyway, maybe his parents have him on "house arrest" right now.

Oh well he has his cellphone

Which country (both of) you are from? In most of the countries, the minors are not allowed to have such relationships. Just concentrate on your studies. Friendship is fine, intimacy is good but the four-lettered word 'love' should interfere in your life only after you cross the earlier part of your teenage. Just be adults and then you can have love, sex and anything under the sun. For the time being, just focus on your studies and your parents. Love your parents. I hope you got my point. Good luck!


I just caught this - she's already posted that she is 13 and he is 14. I must disagree with your "intimacy is good" statement.

No, intimacy is NOT good at that age. She IS in the "earlier part of her teenage [years]," and I'm not even sure that love is appropriate. Of course, "love" varies from person to person.

By dictionary definition I believe intimacy is highly inappropriate: "An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy." She is 13 years old!

This is, of course, a Q and A board, and a lot of what is posted is opinion.

Were this my 13 year old the " She is 13 years old!

This is, of course, a Q and A board, and a lot of what is posted is opinion.

Were this my 13 year old the " statement would have me upset.

As far as "Just be adults and then you can have love, sex and anything under the sun.. . I hope you got my point" I didn't get your point.

She's 13!

Thank u I don't get her either

Thank u I don't get her either


Great minds must think alike.

I'll bet anything your boyfriend is under a lot of stress.

Come back and let us know, okay?

He asnwerd

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- and he said..

That he sorry and that he love me and that he wish he could always talk to me

That he sorry and that he love me and that he wish he could always talk to me


Good - I'm sure you feel a LOT better.

I do

I do



Good - keep me informed.

Sometimes it's hard for guys to communicate... sometimes the care/friendliness just can't come out. If he's young (13/14 years old) and has bi-polar issues that means that he might sometimes feel stressed, down or just not communicating very effectively on a given hour or day...

Be patient with him.

Sometimes it's hard for guys to communicate..... sometimes the care/friendliness just can't come out. If he's young (13/14 years old) and has bi-polar issues that means that he might sometimes feel stressed, down or just not communicating very effectively on a given hour or day...

be patient with him.


Where is it posted that he's bi polar? What did I miss?

Ok I will and its on the second or first page

Ok I will and its on the second or first page


Found it - missed it completely!

Doesn't change my advice and, yes, you will need to be patient with him.

Ok I will